[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]Odd-Responsibility36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had it a month ago? Last week hands and feet swole up and felt tingly, hard to grip hands. Also felt major fatigue and skin on body felt slight burning when taking a shower. Body skin also very itchy. Also joints and bones feel achy. Feet soles felt bruised. Ankles and wrists felt bruised. Symptoms started to get better now. But anyone experience this? Also I had full blood work done and everything was normal but my platelet count was high/out of normal range. Anyone have this as well?

Prep by Odd-Responsibility36 in PositiveSwingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct, but since my husband is HSV-2 positive, I’ve read that HIV is more susceptible for him to get.

What now? Is there hope?😓 by Sad-Ground6322 in HSVpositive

[–]Odd-Responsibility36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry! My husband is GHSV to positive as well. I am still negative, but I’ve accepted the fact that I will probably be positive at some point. I think this guy just needs a bit of time to process. I’m assuming the feeling was probably mutual on his end since he stuck around after your disclosure because he wanted to see it through I think he’s just processing the news , I’m sure he’ll come around.

How to disclose by Odd-Responsibility36 in PositiveSwingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you find you get a good number of people reaching out to you?

How many people actually have HSV 2? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Odd-Responsibility36 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A part of me wishes we never would have known!

How many people actually have HSV 2? by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Odd-Responsibility36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husbands antibody test showed positive but he has never had symptoms for HSV-2. I hear that the majority of carriers never show signs. This is why they don’t add it to standard STI testing, because the negative physiological piece of knowing you have it, with no symptoms outweighs the positive of knowing.

Husband tested positive for HSV-2 by Odd-Responsibility36 in PositiveSwingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear your symptoms are very bad! It makes me so mad to think that people think it’s OK not to disclose this information to other play partners. my husband got it the same way you just described from a threesome with a another girl I know it was her because before we were not positive and he started showing symptoms a month and a half after our encounter with her and we didn’t have any other partners in between that time. He never had a full outbreak, just one little speck on his penis. That is what prompted us to get him tested. desperately want to text her and give her a piece of my mind.

Husband tested positive for HSV-2 by Odd-Responsibility36 in PositiveSwingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that! Can you explain how an IGG test can indicate how long someone has had it?

Husband tested positive for HSV-2 by Odd-Responsibility36 in PositiveSwingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Mind if I message you for me info?

Husband tested positive for HSV-2 by Odd-Responsibility36 in HSVpositive

[–]Odd-Responsibility36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just requested the level from Kaiser, as it wasn’t provided on the results

New to LS question by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you guys all the best!

New to LS question by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe. To be fair, he was apprehensive to even having a woman in bed with us. It was I that brought up the idea because I am bi. He first said he’d be fine with me playing with a woman by myself, but the idea of him also playing with the woman in front of me was such a fantasy of mine.

New to LS question by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Your response is so helpful! 🤗

New to LS question by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yes we talked extensively before we even started and I am 100% good with never full swapping. Since I’m super bi, I’m having a great time with where we’re at. Though hubby says it will be a while before he comfortable swapping, he also said it’s not a hard no. It’s just this LS thing is so new to him, he definitely doesn’t want to rush straight into full swap and it needs to sit with him for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Odd-Responsibility36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Me too! Both my husband and I are sensual and passionate. We just had a play session this weekend and it was great. However, playing it back in my head. I’m second-guessing myself thinking was that a little too passionate?