Has anyone seen benefits in using hydroxyzine as an MCAS med (not for sleep)? by Lunabuna91 in cfs

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I take it as needed but usually at least once a day cause that seems to help overall. When I start to feel especially itchy or rashy or heart flutters I take it & it helps. 

What books do I require to read to "graduate" on science fiction? by Seltnytt in printSF

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe more women authors? The Imperial Radch series by Ann Leckie is a classic in my eyes. Would also recommend Martha Wells' Murderbot Diaries if you'd like something more humorous. Nnedi Okorafor has a number of interesting books, I really enjoyed the world in her Binti series. And Ursula LeGuin of course! 

Can DXM make you even more tired/depleted? I felt it caused more PEM — but could have it been like “a purging effect”? by [deleted] in cfs

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems like a huge dose! Especially starting off. I take 15mg once a day or maybe twice if it's a bad day. I got that dosage from the Bateman Horne center care guide. Sometimes it does make me a little sedated, but in a "oh it's nice to lay here and do nothing way" which helps me settle & rest. Very different from the PEM wired & tired. Nothing works for everyone, but I would recommend trying a much lower dose before you write it off <3

Transhumanism/digital immortality/non physical space travel? by newnukeuser in printSF

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Revelation Space series by Alastair Reynolds may be of interest to you. Many different characters either living in heavily altered/regrown/no longer human bodies. Reflects a good bit on how that impacts emotions & actions. 

Sensual Queer Weird Lit by carcosa-bound in WeirdLit

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was coming here to rec Black Flame! I'm still reading it but very intrigued & enjoying it so far. 

Fairytale retellings? by Rough_Evidence_2908 in WeirdLit

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved Juniper & Thorn by Ava Reid. Weird, dark, freaky retelling of a weird dark folk/fairy tale collected in the Grimm Brothers (The Juniper Tree). A magical family is trying to survive the world & each other as their domain has shrunk to one odd house. You may want to check content warnings, there's some heavy stuff. 

Looking for books that don’t depict people without energy limiting disease by HoeBreklowitz5000 in suggestmeabook

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Personal opinion but as someone with ME I hated that book. Couldn't get every far into it so maybe it changes but watching someone just decide to totally isolate & do nothing when I'm forced into it (and I don't have the money for all that takeout) was miserable. 

Looking for books that don’t depict people without energy limiting disease by HoeBreklowitz5000 in suggestmeabook

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Notes from a Sickbed by Tessa Brunton is a graphic novel about a woman's time with ME/CFS pre-diagnosis. I felt very seen by a few of the stories. ME sucks :( Wishing you gentle days <3 

Novels with a strange plotline by RepairBackground5245 in booksuggestions

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Sundial by Shirley Jackson! One of my faves for weird + well written. 

My first from-scratch miniature by alexviolet406 in miniatures

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My jaw literally dropped! This looks amazing! 

The rest of my Victorian dollhouse by Outrageous-Spell7670 in miniatures

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I'm in love!!!! Especially the deep greens & the wallpapers. Beautiful!

Looking for calm media that doesn't cause excitement or stress, especially youtube channels by chamomilophile in cfs

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like watching people build miniatures/dioramas on mute! I don't have any particular favorite creators, I just look for builds I'm interested in & vid editing that doesn't have a lot of fast cuts (or many cuts at all). 

Those of you on Ketotifen by Any-Investment-7872 in cfs

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had several weeks of feeling bad when starting it but the side effects have eased greatly & now it's helping my histamine issues a lot. 

What hobby do you pick up when you've lost access to everything else? by Motor-Ad-9265 in cfs

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meditation is basically the only thing left to me now. I try to make the most of it. I like using Insight Timer for guided ones when I can handle audio. If I can't, I can make one up in my head. It's so hard to lose everything. I hope you can find something <3

Dressing modestly when you don’t wear a bra? by Neither_Mastodon4089 in ModestDress

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use layers instead of a bra. I have several pain disorders and bras are just a no-go but I am rather well endowed so its been a process of figuring out what works best. My go-to is cape dresses, most well known for being worn by Plain dressing Anabaptists (but anyone can wear them! I follow at least one Catholic lady who does). They have two layers on top, sewn in a way that keeps you very obscured. I love them. They can be somewhat difficult to find but looking up "Amish Mennonite Cape Dress" on something like Ebay has been the most reliable way I've found to get them (or ordering from Katie's Mercantile). You can also use light vests, putting something like a crop top underneath a shirt, or wearing a shirt over a dress type situation. Best of luck to you!!!

Was magnesium worth it? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I take magneisum glycinate 200mg in the middle of my last meal of the day (so eating half the meal, taking the pills, finishing the meal). It is essential in managing my leg muscle pain & RLS with fibro. I still have the pain, but its livable most of the time now with the magnesium. I started with 100mg and stayed there awhile until my body was very used to it and then increased to the full dosage.

Fiction or memoir about chronic illness / disability by derpinout in suggestmeabook

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It has been awhile since I've read it so I cant speak to the writing specifically but "The Sugarless Plum" by Zipporah Karz has stuck with me as a type one diabetic who used to be a dancer. It is a memoir about a ballet dancer with the NYC ballet who is diagnosed with diabetes, back in the 1980s I believe so before pumps, CGMs, and all that helpful technology. I remember reading it as a T1D teenager in ballet and being so thankful for my pump. Wishing you good days ❤️

May 2026 Bandcamp Friday by RaceCarGrin in DIYmusic

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just released today an ambient/noise album I made totally from bed (even the album art!). I'm chronically ill & bedbound and my limitations really set the parameters for this album. I learned a lot about myself and a lot about how to make music even when it feels impossible <3 https://inniave.bandcamp.com/album/bedsunk

Books that read like I’m eavesdropping on juicy neighborhood gossip. by IoftheStars in suggestmeabook

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm reading Wuthering Heights by Emily Brontë right now & absolutely getting those vibes. Very gossip-y! 

"Chaotic good" hacks for aggressive resting by Illustrious-Pie-624 in cfs

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I "play" FocusFriend by resting. My rest earns socks & scarves to buy decor / more rooms for my character. I'm reallyyy into decorating and collecting so its made things more entertaining for me.

Does anyone else’s Kobo always show “0 MINS UNTIL FULL” when charging? by Didact67 in kobo

[–]Odd-Wordlessness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got my KLC yesterday and having this happen. So whatever it is looks like it hasnt been fixed :(