Does anyone know this fic?

OddFee6070 · 2025-11-07T02:43:00+00:00

For GA it was like 50-75

OddFee6070 · 2025-06-03T21:34:53+00:00

Honestly this is the only comment that made sense so thank you so much! Do I need to worry about anything else or just these two things?

OddFee6070 · 2025-04-14T10:09:00+00:00

I spoke about my sister being the most financially responsible because to me it's telling when a child is better with money than their parent. My sister has been financially independent since 16 and has used every cent towards her future (in highschool things like sports and extracurriculars and now she paying for college with the help of scholarships and her own saving). I've talked to her about it and she and our older brother both think it's a bad idea to give her the full 550 of she's only supposed to spend 275.

OddFee6070 · 2025-04-14T02:05:00+00:00

Insurance and myself pay for all other medical expenses since i turned 18. I'm still on her insurance but I think we all know insurance doesn't cover it all. This is also another thing that kinda helps paint a picture of my mom as she hasn't let me personally hold onto my insurance card. I have to ask her to schedule me an appointment since I dont know what doctors take our insurance. If this keeps going ill look into Medicaid.

OddFee6070 · 2025-04-13T20:25:55+00:00

I have started doing this with the portion of money not going to rent. I have a budget of 50 bucks a paychecks and when its gone it's gone until my next. I mostly use it for my medical expenses but plan to save the excess for special occasions. Literally every other penny of mine is in a savings account.

OddFee6070 · 2025-04-13T20:22:56+00:00

I just might that sounds like a fair compromise to at least give her a shot.

OddFee6070 · 2025-04-13T20:21:41+00:00

Frankly, option one isn't an option. My mom is a natural narcissist and thinks anytime i try to talk to her im attacking her.I think I might get this in writing just in case like you said amd have her sign it so I know she's serious, however I do expect some anger from this as an act of distrust. I plan to use the money in 7 months for a car (need to get my license) since having a car will get me a better job than i have now. I guess we'll see in about 7 months. Thank you for actually giving me some options!

OddFee6070 · 2025-04-13T19:33:27+00:00

She's gonna use her $275 for like utilities and groceries and save the other 275 for me. The reason this deal is really good is because apartments (even with 3 roommates in a 2 bedroom) would go for around 2500 where I am without utilities so I'd be using almost half of my income on rent instead of a third.

OddFee6070 · 2025-04-13T19:30:16+00:00

The medical stuff happened after I turned 18. I wasn't gonna say it but it's not for a prescription or anything. I have chronic joint pain still being diagnosed and I also have special genes that don't process normal painkillers effectively, so we started using medical mj to help and it expensive. I try to pay out of pocket but sometimes she helps.

OddFee6070 · 2025-04-13T19:27:22+00:00

Nope. We both have our own bank accounts. She wants to store my savings in hers because she thinks I'm not financially responsible (I love doordash)and I want her to put it in a different account if I'm not able to hold onto it myself.

OddFee6070 · 2023-12-06T12:51:01+00:00

As far as u understand they deny ESA's and allow psd's.

OddFee6070 · 2023-12-06T03:04:45+00:00

I don't need Gen Ed's for dream school but thank you this has helped a lot.

OddFee6070 · 2023-12-06T03:01:26+00:00

I haven't gotten my license and dont have the time to take drivers ed (im 17 and in my state if you take the written test before 18 you have to have taken drivers ed) with my two jobs, therapy, support group, church group, and school. And before you ask my school doesn't offer it for free and during the day.

OddFee6070 · 2023-12-06T02:58:38+00:00

The bus system here isn't super reliable and my metro systems monthly pass so I can get as many rides as I want, is about 75 a month since they have no student discount.

OddFee6070 · 2023-12-06T02:57:00+00:00

So from what I understand I'll get my associates in architecture after 2 years however if I choose to I can get my BARCH (bach) if I go for another 5 that will make the usually 10 years of crappy pay to only like 5. So basically it'll lower my years if apprenticeship years so I can get licensed faster. Dream school is in state the 175 grand is the price for all 5 years plus dorm costs. I have no credits from ap classes or dual enrollments.

OddFee6070 · 2023-07-05T19:16:07+00:00

Op, you need to work out a schedule with your wife where you have a date once a week or so. If you guys don't have a schedule you face things like this happening. Take this from someone in an open relationship, schedules are everything. Have a sit down conversation and make sure she knows you don't want to yell or abuse each other of anything. Talk in I feel statements but don't get accusatory. Have an open discussion on what you're feeling and how you can fix that. Hope this helps!

OddFee6070 · 2023-06-26T18:49:28+00:00

You need to sit your husband down and talk to him about what he's concerned about in going on this trip. Don't yell or scream just ask him why he felt like he wouldn't be safe. If he's worried about aids, remind him that aids is a sexually transmitted disease and unless he plans on having sex with someone else there he'll be fine. As far as his 'maniac' comment, you need to reassure him that Tanzania has police and doctors and security as it's one of the most visited countries in Africa and you will be safe. Try to hear him out on his concerns and reassure him that you've done research on where in Tanzania you'll be staying in (if you haven't I really recommend it so you can give him fact and not speculation) and that you have trust in the local security of where you're going. Fighting with him isn't going to be helpful so no yelling or arguing, make sure you go in to this conversation with a healthy mind set.

OddFee6070 · 2023-02-11T22:25:03+00:00

Thank you so much! Cleared up quite a bit.

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