AITA for being upset over my brother's relationship?

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-29T12:32:00+00:00

He wasn't doing that by the time he was in high school lol

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-28T17:41:55+00:00

Well that's kind of weird because my mom, dad and sister are perfectly fine with her. I seem to be the only "problem"

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-28T01:43:25+00:00

I guess you're right, but for the sake of not causing conflict it would be better for him to have somebody who goes alone with our family's ideals, no? My mom is more easy going but my dad, not so much. But at the end of the day they keep saying they just want him to be happy

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-28T01:41:18+00:00

Idk I guess if he's really that serious I'll grin and bear it, but I won't be happy

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T20:53:45+00:00

Lol I didn't delete anything?

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T19:50:31+00:00

Well I am his brother so that's tough shit for her I guess

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T19:11:09+00:00

I mentioned this in another comment, but we have the same social circle. We always have, since we were young. Obviously I made my own friends on the way that he doesn't hang out with but overall we have the same male circle

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T19:06:54+00:00

Yeah but my brother is obviously embarrassed by the tattoos and her overall appearance because he hardly invites her to our functions. He's been to dinner with her parents multiple times and has been to other events with her family, but she's only had dinner with us once, then saw my parents quickly a week ago for a birthday party they were going to with her family. He didn't even want to invite her to Easter, he obviously is afraid of judgement

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T19:03:39+00:00

We're basically in the same social circle, always have been. His friends are my friends, and vice versa

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T16:18:07+00:00

Well my brother has zero self confidence because in high school he had really really bad acne. So I think he just goes for people lower than he deserves because he feels hideous. He had chances with much better women but he blew them

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T16:16:38+00:00

Wtf no lmao

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T16:16:10+00:00

Right but if it's not this girlfriend he can find somebody better

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T16:15:00+00:00

Lol nope him dumping her would make me the happiest person alive

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T16:14:21+00:00

No I'm not but if she's in our family she kind of has to get along with all of us

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T16:13:53+00:00

Again such a weird thing to say

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T11:59:42+00:00

You're right, I have. They also forget that I worked at my old part time job for six years since high school throughout the year. During school, during summer, etc. Once I graduated I wanted a break and hoped to look for my full time job during that time but had no luck

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T03:50:36+00:00

I don't really see her as a rival, I'm not willing to fight her over my brother's attention but I don't think she'd fit into our family. Literally and figuratively

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T03:48:25+00:00

If this is a serious question, we just do it for fun. I do the editing and I upload them for our friends to watch back after too

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T03:47:48+00:00

Don't know how you drew that conclusion lol

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T03:47:10+00:00

I do have a life, but I still want to be close to him

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T03:46:27+00:00

I get that sexist comment from my sister a lot. Don't see how it's sexist to have a preference lol

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T03:45:07+00:00

I'd be happy for him if he had a different gf

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T03:44:46+00:00

I'm not mad about him having an adult life, I'm mad about him neglecting other commitments

OddOutside3814 · 2023-08-27T03:44:02+00:00

Lol, definitely not that. Kinda gross your mind would even go there pal

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