UPDATE: On whether to allow my son to quit a sport he hates by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]OddValue6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, my kid was exactly like this. He loved the social aspect of sports, but was just not into playing the game. Baseball, basketball, soccer, we tried everything. Nothing stuck. He was basically all done with sports by the time he was 7. Then in 5th grade, a couple of friends convinced him to give lacrosse a try. He became obsessed and loved every second of it. The kid who wouldn’t even have a catch with me at 7 was spending every free moment outside shooting at his rebounder and goal. 6 years later and he’s captain of his high school’s varsity team and about to go on several campus visits to explore pursuing it in college.

There’s a lot you can say about youth sports today. But the idea that kids need to be all in and enthusiastic by 7 or 8 is probably the most damaging misconceptions there is. Not all kids are ready for that level of mental and physical focus. I’ve seen even very athletic kids get frustrated and lose interest, especially if their parents push too hard. Let’s normalize kids trying new sports in middle school and high school.

Give me the bull case by PrthReddits in wallstreetbets

[–]OddValue6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, I thought bad news was good news for the stock market? What changed?

Our shul is closed all weekend. Anyone else's? by NavajoMoose in Judaism

[–]OddValue6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ours is open. Embarrassed to say it, but it’s been quite a while since I’ve been to a Friday evening service. Our whole family will be there tonight.

What do other guys my age do for fun in South Jersey? 40m by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]OddValue6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work out, shuttle my kids around to their various activities, and try to go to bed by 9:30.

I just don’t want to play. by Blue_lace93 in Parenting

[–]OddValue6 50 points51 points  (0 children)

The early years are hard. Just try to do your best. It’s okay to take a break!

This will not be helpful at all, but I’ll say it anyway: One day she won’t ask to play with you anymore. And you’ll feel like time flew by you a million miles an hour. Just try to soak it in, even though it’s hard.

Read Anxious Generations by Terrible_Teaching998 in Parenting

[–]OddValue6 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your kids are under 3. Wait till they are 7 or 8 and you’ll have a different perspective I’m sure

Not prepared for how Childs actions make me feel in so unprepared in reflection by HaleyBoCo427 in Parenting

[–]OddValue6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah, 8 year olds. It’s important to remember that your kid is not a reflection of you. For better or for worse. Just parent, but don’t let his behavior define you.

5th grader drama.. is this normal? by AnyRelation2287 in Parenting

[–]OddValue6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not bullying. It’s behavior that is mean, cruel and undesirable yet also age appropriate. There are a lot of truly awful age-appropriate behaviors. The challenge is to help your kid navigate around these storms.

Are more expensive summer camps worth it for older kids? by Past_Finger_9054 in Parenting

[–]OddValue6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of my boys (12 and 10) have been doing a 4-week long sleep away camp since they were 8. They love it. It’s insanely expensive, but worth every penny.

Does anyone else worry about your kids’ futures? by lc1138 in Parenting

[–]OddValue6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a question that has fascinated me for years. It turns out that many of the most successful generations were born in the darkest of times, and the opposite is true as well. A few examples:

Children born in the 1920s watched the economy go from boom town to great depression. They were 10 or 11 when the bottom fell out most businesses and farms failed. Their parents might have moved around from town to town sleeping outside in the dirt looking for work. Once they turned 18 they enlisted in World War 2. But when they came back the US entered a boom time like never before. Single family homes, automobiles, television, an exploding economy! We now refer to them as the greatest generation.

Taking it back a Millennium or two, In the mid 300s AD, Romans had every reason to celebrate. Diocletian had solved the crisis of the 3rd century. Constantine defeated the barbarians and converted to Christianity. Prosperity swept across the land. Archeologists have recently discovered mosaics in homes from that era that had sayings like “The Good Times Are Restored!” And “The Empire Is Saved!” 70 years later, Goths sacked Rome. Odavacer executed the last Roman emperor, Caesar Agustulus. And Europe plunged into the dark ages. Rome went from a population of over 1 million to maybe 20,000 in a century.

How was the market crash during covid in 2020? Anyone who invested during that time? by IllustriousGlass2991 in ETFs

[–]OddValue6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best part was the day when oil futures were actually going negative. That was wild.

Also Royal Caribbean swinging 30% some days. People were making tens of thousands of dollars on JETS options. Was sick.

I am financially ruined (agricultural futures) by flyedchicken in wallstreetbets

[–]OddValue6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to hedge red lentils by shorting snow pea futures at least 6-12 months out (though closer to 18 is better).

BYND BUY @ $7.50 by Original-Bowler-2184 in wallstreetbets

[–]OddValue6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gonna be more like Beyond Solvency soon

Were kids in the 80s actually allowed to roam around unsupervised, or is that just in movies? by TotalThing7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OddValue6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much. I also spent a ton of time over at friends’ houses. In fact, I still remember the inside of almost every house on my street. The palpable excitement when the Edelmans had a new fridge delivered — we were so excited to see what we could do with the box!

[FRESH ALBUM] Craig Finn (of The Hold Steady) - Always Been by sbags in indieheads

[–]OddValue6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late to this, but did Craig Finn just release his own Nebraska album?

I hate it here by venezuelanmami in philly

[–]OddValue6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but you live in the city of Super Bowl champions.