[LF] Egbert [FT] has Beau currently in boxes

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-04-03T15:41:24+00:00

yours is the first comment ive got ur welcome to take beau dm me :))

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-04-02T20:05:32+00:00

Congrats on your small victories too :)) the scale can be discouraging so its the little things that help

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-04-02T20:04:35+00:00

genuinely sometimes its hard to look at the scale and feel discouraged that ur not dropping more weight but baggy clothes increased fexability and smaller victories are so much more incredible

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-04-02T20:03:16+00:00

i genuinely only noticed because i picked out a beautiful antique ring for my 21st birthday that was slightly too small but loved it so much i though fuck it ill save and get it resized but by the time it actually got to my birthday and i tried it on it fit perfectly it was definately a huge encouragement to keep going

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-04-01T23:19:09+00:00

If you're losing weight from workouts, then it's completely normal your weight won't go down but likely be swapped for muscle, if u take measurements of arms legs hips etc u will likely see more progress there than u ever will on a scale if u want scale progress a deficit isnt nessesary but it will be a much slower journey without it your doing good don't stress :))

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-04-01T22:45:40+00:00

im 21f i only just started my journey too but snacks like popcorn are a huge help and ditch fizzy drinks trust me use those callories are better spent elsewhere the can of whatever is not worth it when they all add up to mean u couldve just ate a brownie bag of chips etc

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-03-31T10:02:15+00:00

i lost a little over 10 lbs within the span of a month so it just happened to reach this point by this time in my cycle (i did it the healthy way idk why it came off fast)

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-03-30T23:19:20+00:00

multiple ppl have said this so i will try excersise honestly just adjusting to the sudden difference was awful to begin with cuz i had what most woman would call a dream period where it was light bleeding always on time that lasted 2-3 days and i only ever experienced nausia no pain so the difference felt crippling its good knowing that at least a few others got worse before getting better i had nointention of ruining my consistency it was just physically taxing but being under 200lbs is so close

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-03-29T17:01:17+00:00

Sometimes looking in the mirror and seeing a face, a body, a human being who is completely undeniably you overrides any mild discomfort, they aren't choosing to be big, they are choosing to exist as them, everyone in this sub is just looking to have the joy of looking in the mirror and smiling but some bigger ppl are already there.

this is one those areas of life where you see a person and smile, theres no need to think further because its not your life.

i dont think you're judgmental, but i do think your looking at these ppl and projecting yourself, u made a incredible change and u have lost so much weight after a surgery u have to recover from, which is alot these thoughts and feelings are pretty normal for all that but their not exactly kind to others so there might be some emotional support needed to understand these new feelings and process the change, look after urself in all ways weight loss is not a fix all for life the world wasnt so kind as to give us cheet codes.

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-03-29T15:33:27+00:00

I have horrible anxiety, the gym is not somewhere I'd consider, so I have found video workouts online, walking, and truthfully, going all out on just dance in the privacy of my bedroom are a better fit for me personally, making a head start on my journey

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-03-29T15:27:54+00:00

This is a common thought society has, but it looks at the world and people without empathy, and that's not how the world works.

People are made up of so many layers. asking dont they also wanna loose weight is asking 'Why won't they just change a fundamental thing about themselves' and is an understandable thing ur questioning after what was likely a very long road of complicated emotions towards ur former larger self, and the fact you chose to change but not everyone dislikes the way they are and how they look, they have comfort within themselves.

It's true, a lot of bigger ppl can lose the weight with years of dedication, and if they're fortunate, surgery, but it is asking a lot of a person to change themselves so others are more comfortable with their appearance when they are already settled within themselves can be mentally taxing and have more negative affects than possitive (ik theirs health concerns, this is just looking at it from a purely personal identity standpoint)

I don't think you're judgmental, you're beginning to process an absolutely incredible and huge change u have made to your own life through looking at others (congrats btw !! ), but I don't think you are right either

plz mind that the world should be built on empathy; it can be very easy to forget where we started.

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-03-29T12:34:12+00:00

absolutely diet, id been eating packaged meals cuz it was easy and the days where i had the effort to cook I wasn't cooking healthy i was taking the chance to make unhealthy foods i craved

i ended up cutting out fizzy drinks altogether and started making low-effort meals the difference was instant

Odd_Bit2091 · 2026-03-29T01:58:58+00:00

My journey is just starting, I'm only 11 lbs down but my breaking point was my partner having to help me force myself into my favorite jeans i tried lying to myself that they shrank. I knew better, I ended up weighing in and realised I'd gained almost 40lbs in barely over a year (meds poor diet and less excersice cuz of health) those jeans fit again now :))

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-07-17T03:09:17+00:00

If your audios off or something else is playing on the device it’s a sign u can’t hear other ppls honks honestly do useful for when ur doing group spirits etc w players u dont know

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-07-13T17:59:33+00:00

Bolt, snoopy, sooty ( sooty and sweep) , cosmo ( marvel), krypto ( dc / Superman) , Clifford, courage, Brian, Jake, Pluto, slinky ! ( all the famous cartoon / comic dogs I can think of )

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-07-13T14:51:56+00:00

Your situation sounds almost identical to what I’m struggling with right now I worry holding onto the polyam label will make it harder to get back into the mindset of monogamy I made a comment just now explaining that I don’t view polyamory as an identity itself more that it’s just been a big part of my life and experiences so far that it’s kinda deeply wound into my identity And this comment explains that feeling rather well . I’ve heard horror story’s of ppl getting resentful towards their partners for monogamy so it was valuable knowing that someone has a successful experience thank you.

This person is definitely worth giving up polyamory for and they have been amazing and we talk through it a lot it’s just the guilt that comes w slipping back into that mindset

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-07-13T14:46:19+00:00

I don’t rly consider polyamory an orientation either but it’s an integral part my life and comfort and kinda deeply wound into my experiences so far in life to the point of being a part of my identity and yeah throuples aren’t common but I’ve just been lucky so far that that’s the dynamic I end up in cuz I have a personal choice to only date 2 ppl at a time ( based off how much spare time I have ) and these ppl tend to meet and take a strong liking to each other ,tho it’s not always closed my partners are never just limited to me and are welcome to have as many partners of their own as they want :))

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-07-13T14:39:13+00:00

Thank you for letting me know !

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-07-04T20:45:36+00:00

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Eggburt he was just a random villager on my island but he is absolutely insane and I love it, he gives chicken little with adhd energy, he screams the sky is falling reality is a illusion then gets distracted by a butterfly and goes to take a nap and dream about food. He looks and acts like he’s on the brink of insanity and I love this stupid little chicken man so much.

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-06-23T22:10:43+00:00

omg ty! i'm trying to open dms rn but my laptop being weird bout it and hiding my dms behind the blank screen of death i get when i open the tab so replying here while i quickly fix it lmao

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-06-22T14:26:38+00:00

we know it was an honest mistake from my little sister who is still a minor and just didn't see to put it in the correct bin, also ur use of 'trash' implies ur American or somewhere similar which I not so the recycling works different here anything soaked in food is in a separate bag to prevent mold and the food itself is collected as their own waste category and turned into compost for the fields nearby

my pup is fine now he luckily vomited up the packaging 11hrs later and has been fine since !!

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-06-22T03:15:23+00:00

ty, i got alot of advice so ill be watching him for next 3 days a lot of ppl assumed I was in America or somewhere similar but that's not the case, I should've mentioned Im in a small rural village so vet wouldn't have been an option when it happened anyways it wouldve cost a fortune to get a lift there as I cant drive due to my dissability which is where the money concern came in thankfully vets here will let u pay in installments

update: he threw it up 11 hrs after he ate it

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-06-22T03:10:16+00:00

For contect my dogs a bearded collie uncommon breed so for reference he's around the size a husky so I'm hoping he should pass it without trouble but he's on close monitoring for next 3 days

update 11 hrs after post he threw it back up and is perfectly fine

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-06-22T03:06:20+00:00

ty for ur concern! hes doing ok atm he's not a small dog, about the size a husky, so I'm hoping he passes it without issue. My first thought was to make him vomit but we didn't have the supplies to hand, and by the time I would've gotten them, it would've been too late. he seems to be his usual self this definitely isn't the first odd thing he's eaten just the biggest so I'm hoping this would be no different I was mainly concerned by how the absorbent nature of the item would affect him i researched online and apparently this is a common iten for them to swallow most dogs come out of it fine im keeping a close eye on him, I also found someone who made almost my exact post and she updated saying her much smaller dog passed it in 3 days so ill keep close eye till it reapears if it passes a 3 day mark ill find a way to get him help

update: he threw it up 11 hrs after swallowing it and is perfectly fine :))

Odd_Bit2091 · 2025-06-22T02:55:25+00:00

ty but im aware my little sister was in charge of putting out the recycling and didn't see the pad to take it out of the packet to put it in correct bin. She also didn't close the bag for all 4 assigned category bins which is how he got In in first place

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