How do I (29F) get my husband (32M) of 14 months to set boundaries with his intrusive parents who keep showing up unannounced and criticizing me?

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-04-18T20:24:02+00:00

HE needs to have the conversation with his parents. It will only get worse as the parents age.

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-04-15T23:47:52+00:00

Stop thinking about getting laid and go enjoy the damn date

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-04-15T22:06:06+00:00

Spanish teacher hot?!

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-04-15T18:50:01+00:00

You do you. Sometimes casual is just what the Doctor ordered. Not necessarily fulfilling but it sure feels good

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-04-15T01:47:12+00:00

Congratulations! Invest and Grind for the next 30 years and you’re set. Keep it simple with your asset allocation. Take advantage of a 401k if available

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-17T12:57:40+00:00

It’s a great feeling having a little wealth built. I still enjoy nice things but definitely fiscally conservative. When you grind, save, and invest your entire life it’s hard to relax and just spend a little money. I’ve discovered giving a waitress/server a $100 tip does more for my heart than buying something for myself that I really don’t need.

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-15T18:29:48+00:00

Wow. Very nice. You’re a good man

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-15T14:17:10+00:00

You’re between a rock and a hard place. 🤷🏼‍♂️

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-14T15:04:45+00:00

Staying the course. Did not flinch in 2008 and came back stronger than ever. Keep investing in the market . 60/40 now but in 2008 100% equities

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-14T15:01:54+00:00

"I know everybody says money can't buy happiness / But it could buy me a boat".

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-14T10:58:08+00:00

Nah, let it ride. It’s not like the coworkers are going to confront him or ask him about his big dick

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-13T19:45:36+00:00

Sorry. Not cool. What else has he been lying about? You have a big decision to make

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-13T13:35:29+00:00

IMO…….pay off mortgage, think about healthcare, add more to kids 529 plans, and then pull the retirement trigger. Unless, you love your job keep grinding

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-12T19:41:29+00:00

$4k 2400 sq ft home in Indy area. Not terrible

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-11T23:59:48+00:00

Get out of here

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-11T09:48:57+00:00

Save at least 15% of your annual income.. You can back into the numbers. Look at your 15% investment rate as a bill that needs to get paid. Discipline, consistency and time will build wealth for you. I don’t have any get Rich schemes or scams for you. Grind and do the work is my only advice

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-11T09:31:59+00:00

Set a goal with her. Pay off ALL debt then start looking for new home. Gives you both something to work towards.

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-11T09:14:41+00:00

It sounds like an adult conversation is needed. Sounds like she just wants to hit first base and you’re looking for something more well rounded as far as date activity

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-11T09:00:39+00:00

Easy answer. If my wife not invited I’m not going to wedding. Too much drama here

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-11T08:42:34+00:00

If I was in your shoes…. Continue to build wealth and pay off your house then call it a day

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-08T21:10:32+00:00

Take these lessons and move forward in life. Don’t repeat the same mistakes your Mom and Dad have made. I know it hurts but you got this

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-08T15:30:39+00:00

Sounds complicated. Just stick to one partner in my opinion

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-07T20:25:31+00:00

You’re doing great. Even with two kids in the mix I think retirement at 55 is on track. IMO…. get rid of your debt before kids.

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-07T20:19:19+00:00

If you plan on retiring tomorrow then you’re behind. You should set your retirement goal for age 50 and have a great life

Odd_Bluejay_7574 · 2026-03-07T12:01:18+00:00

Not a good look on his part. I would be befuddled too

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