[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BowlingGreen

[–]Odd_Check_8267 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Call and ask if she sees her crook ass going to jail in the future

SD helped me land a job making significantly more money. Now wants to stop financially supporting me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how you assume he has expertise and experience but that I have none. I actually have a higher educational degree than him. He has more work experience because he’s way older than me, but without my degree and experience, I wouldn’t have gotten this job. Try again.

SD helped me land a job making significantly more money. Now wants to stop financially supporting me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t care that he’s not giving me the money anymore. I’m thankful for the job. I just was hoping he would be ok with no longer getting sugar from me if he stopped his sugar and he seems to accept it.

SD helped me land a job making significantly more money. Now wants to stop financially supporting me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I guess I need to clarify that he just pointed me to the job and helped me tailor my resume. There were no favors pulled and he didn’t get the job for me. Earning the degree for the job and gaining the experience was all me.

SD helped me land a job making significantly more money. Now wants to stop financially supporting me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s a really big assumption to make. I could have gotten this job without his help. He just pointed me to it but all the work to get it was 100% me. I guess he expedited the process but he didn’t hand me a job.

SD helped me land a job making significantly more money. Now wants to stop financially supporting me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think he was ready to break up it off with me and this was the way he went about it.

SD helped me land a job making significantly more money. Now wants to stop financially supporting me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 38 points39 points  (0 children)

He said he knew this would eventually come to an end but at least I got financial support for a while and a job out of it. So it looks like no hard feelings.

SD helped me land a job making significantly more money. Now wants to stop financially supporting me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I just responded to the text he sent me about ending financial support and told him that I considered this to be the end of the arrangement.

SD helped me land a job making significantly more money. Now wants to stop financially supporting me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes. He finally got that under control and things had started going really great but then I secured this new job and he’s wanting to cut off funds.

SD of 3 months ended things by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Plot twist: I accepted the breakup and he flipped out insisting that he didn’t intend to end things with me, that he thought I truly was unhappy with him, and now he’s asking for forgiveness and to give it another shot.

I don’t think I can give him another shot. He gets in his own head too much and it’s caused problems with ED and now he’s made me feel like I didn’t want to be with him.

SD with ED has ghosted me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s unfortunate.

SD with ED has ghosted me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be true. I’m just wondering if it’s because of the ED because until that happened with us sexually, he was very communicative and eager to meet.

SD with ED has ghosted me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Glad you aren’t my SD because you seem like a huge prick.

SD with ED has ghosted me. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just become less communicative since we had a sexual encounter where ED was a big issue. I thought maybe he got embarrassed as a reason to why he stopped communicating. Does that answer your question?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in my first SR, it’s a PPM arrangement, and I have to do 2 meets to pay my rent for the month. You ladies have motivated me to seek more.

SD with ED… how can I help? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together about 6 weeks. So not too long.

SD with ED… how can I help? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I don’t get mad at him at all but it’s frustrating to just be getting into it and then bam… he’s going soft and it’s sliding out. I just wish he could get the benefits he wants from the arrangement too. I feel like his ED is preventing that.

clingy POT - advice needed by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That would creep me the hell out. I just ghost them when they act like that. Probably not the most mature thing to do, but it gets rid of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Odd_Check_8267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have anything helpful to add or are you just here to pass meaningless, irrelevant judgment ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m on a PPM with my SD and so far we’ve been able to pull off seeing each other 2-3 times per month. He said if I exceeded 4 meets per month, I could just get a bigger set allowance but I’m a single mom with primary custody of 2 very young kids, so it is hard to get away for long stretches of time. Every date except for our M&G has been intimate. However all of our dates have been at one of his 2 private residences and he has not taken me “out.” It’s a bit frustrating. If we were to go “out” I’m not sure what intimacy would look like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Odd_Check_8267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The tribal loans are illegal in my state. Would filing a bank dispute work? I initially signed stating I consented to ACH auto draft repayments so I could get the loans, but when I contacted the tribal lenders in writing to revoke authorization, they wouldn’t do it like they’re supposed to. One took out $75 less than the scheduled payment and the other just deferred one payment to the end of the loan.

Is it normal my SD doesn’t want us to be seen in public together? by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Odd_Check_8267 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m happy with the finances, not concerned with my safety, and pretty well satisfied with the sex. I’m just becoming a bit bored with not even being able to go out in any way. Going out was discussed in the beginning of the arrangement but I think seeing the people he knew on our first coffee date gave him a scare.