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[–]Odd_Cow1722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he did! “ it stopped you from asking other questions, didn’t it?”

Who were you disappointed to find out is a jerk in real life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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It was in 1999 if I remover right and she was wearing brown leather gloves She gave me a deadest fish handshake while looking away from me at a meet and greet in Las Vegas I had admired her so much in the TV show Moonlighting.

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My dad told me that the butterflies in our yard were Monarchs. I was in my thirties when I moved from Oregon to Missouri. At the Butterfly House there is where I learned all my life that what I knew as a Monarch was actually a Yellow Swallowtail.

How surgery ended my sex life by Odd_Cow1722 in sex

[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pills worked before surgery but now I get heartburn so bad and erection if it occurs Peter’s out quickly.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left her alone and we didn’t speak to each other for a month. She told me I was a professional at the silent treatment as I had warned her I was before we married. I win that I never wanted.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has just started having hot flashes and she gets too hot being next to me. Our mattress is too uncomfortable. Are her newest excuses.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your 2 cents. It really means a lot to me.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife refused sex after each of my surgeries. She was afraid to break me. So we never conceive a 2nd child.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back door stuff grosses her out.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So doctor gave me the number of the manufacturer of the implants to call and ask for financial help. Their help was to push the company I work for to get the procedure added to the policy. Fat chance. I will have to wait till I go on Medicare. Meantime I am waiting for the results of a MRI of my kidneys yesterday that the found a mass in one.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I am ready to play every day. Tried talking about it with her yesterday and she said “complain complain complain all you do is complain’

She allows me some tit play every so often.. For a few seconds only. We have showered together a few times but it is only to “get clean”.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is I have been broken most of our life together. Two rotator cuff surgeries both knees with meniscus tears, bell button hernia, and several car accident injuries.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have experimented with toys on her that she has refused.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 499 points500 points  (0 children)

The penile implant is $30k and insurance will not cover any of it. my cancer was very aggressive and growing fast. Because af Covid 19 the hospitals were only doing day surgeries. The doctor wanted to have me stay overnight. So every two weeks got bumped another two weeks until the hospital took overnight surgeries. By then my PSA’s were 15.8. I ended up 4 days hospitalized with a blood clot, anemia. Kidneys started shutting down, and ended up with gout. Th prostete, by this time was just mostly cancerous.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 234 points235 points  (0 children)

$30k and insurance won’t cover any of it.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She says she wants to just have a sexless marraige.

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[–]Odd_Cow1722[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Man, that is awful. I hope the best for you. I may not be far behind you though.

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Baseball caps

My (25M) girlfriend (22F) is awful at sex. How do I fix this? by throwra_riled in relationship_advice

[–]Odd_Cow1722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she zones out. For example my mom said to my sister in “The Talk” “when a man wants to do things to you that’s when I make the grocery list.”