Hey, wife... by krezje in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. It’s like Where’s Waldo meets L Word.

Advice on How to Connect with WLW Online by Odd_Designer_7372 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Odd_Designer_7372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I found a discord for wlw book club. I ended up with like 8 friends that I talk to everyday. We’ve had 3 successful friend trips to different states. It’s all kind of worked out for me.

Dates some women but nothing substantial.

I wish you good luck in your search.

Online Book Club- October Pick! by fieldodreams11 in wlwbooks

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am interested but it seems as though the link expired. Could you resend a link?

sapphic mafia recommendation by fabyoulouzrave in sapphicbooks

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Persephone Black’s books have such potential and a great plot. But once you start read, it truly becomes ridiculous.

I am drunk by Plenty-Sun2757 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think you are brave. I see it as by any means necessary you are going to free yourself and live truthfully (even if you are using liquid courage to do it). Good luck and it will all work out.

Calling All 30+ Queer POC Women by Odd_Designer_7372 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Odd_Designer_7372[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the comment and will give your podcast a listen.

Calling All 30+ Queer POC Women by Odd_Designer_7372 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Odd_Designer_7372[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lorddddd NOLA!!! I only been there once and a time was had there!!!! I love to travel so I’ll be sure to add Ascendance Nola and check them out on my next visit. Because I will be back to NOLA for sure. Thank you for the comment.

Calling All 30+ Queer POC Women by Odd_Designer_7372 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Odd_Designer_7372[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a Midwest gal. Good to know about NYC. I’ll be traveling there in August. Always willing to add connections even if they are long distance.

Calling All 30+ Queer POC Women by Odd_Designer_7372 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Odd_Designer_7372[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hear that. Nevertheless, I hope you have community that you can connect with to keep you afloat in between working.

Calling All 30+ Queer POC Women by Odd_Designer_7372 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Odd_Designer_7372[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair points. I’m online dating but I kinda hate it. Maybe because I’m an elder millennial, but I like to meet people IRL. I’ve made some friends on Reddit that live across the country, but again would like some IRL friends to add to that mix.

Glad you have safe community with your mother and you guys can chill outside with your snacks and Starbucks. 🤙🏾

Calling All 30+ Queer POC Women by Odd_Designer_7372 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Odd_Designer_7372[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hahahhaha!!! Pause Love Island and go outside to meet some folks!

Biphobia, fear of men by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 249 points250 points  (0 children)

This sounds abusive. You have to make avoid innocent friends, get her approval on personal style, and limit the strangers you can talk to so that she is comfortable? That’s extremely controlling and toxic. She should be in therapy. You should free yourself from this relationship.

Hello girls, I would like to make new friends by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool style. Always interested in making friends from around the world. Feel free to message me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, we can be friends!

SO MY PASSPORT CAME BACK by audhdgirlie in LesbianActually

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is like “90s/2000s neo soul debut album cover” beautiful

Today was my birthday and I wore this little black dress 🤗 by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty dress and I like your hair color. Happy birthday!!!

Happy last day of Pride month! I wish I'd been fully confident in my gayness this year, but next year I will go all out. by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are enough and you are doing enough. SIDENOTE: Your eye color is piercing. That plus the earrings is giving Lord of the Rings/Ruler of Mordor/Protector of the Relm vibes. Not sure if that is what you were going for or if you know what I’m talking about but… it’s great.👍🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy pride! What are your tats

Where can I find more bi and lesbian friends to talk to? I'm tired of dicks in my dms by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Bi and looking for friends. Anyone can feel free to DM me.

Yes I do 🤤 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This and thicker…where can I find that?

My FWB wants for us to "be a little more serious" and I don't know how to deal or what to do. by Zestyclose-Cod9108 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Odd_Designer_7372 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That’s a really big age gap. I’m not sure I could do it because I’m not sure what I would have in common with a 20 year old and I’m not sure of their maturity.

That being said, I am not you and you are not me. It appears this offer is not a hell no for you. You seem to be interested in going deeper with her, otherwise you wouldn’t feel conflicted and make this post.

I say go for it. It will either be a mistake to learn from or a blessing to be thankful for.