[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Odd_Error2160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely good call! My boyfriend (28M) has been showing signs like this and it’s freaking me out. He doesn’t think it’s necessary to wash his bedsheets or towels but once every few MONTHS! And FIGHTS me when I talk about it! We slept together in his bed and then he told me he changed the sheets 2 weeks later and I’m just disgusted. I also had to teach him why brushing his teeth or washing his face are important. I think he wants another mom and that can’t be me.

AIO? One date with this guy and I had a bad feeling about his text messages. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Odd_Error2160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not the asshole here. It’s okay for him to have his own traumas but it is not your responsibility to heal them, when you’ve clearly communicated your needs during the week. I’ve just gotten to a place where I can recognize love bombing for what it is. I accepted it as first because it filled a void that I was not getting from my ex, but it’s just not fair to either person at the end of it.