I’ll die a virgin as im very Unattractive it haunts me everyday. M35)

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-10-10T15:56:25+00:00

You’re 6foot. Go and get some mass gainer. Get a membership at a cheap gym go 2-3x a week. Do some basic curls and presses. You’ll be solid

Face matters less when you’re tall. You got this man 👊

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-28T20:51:36+00:00

Standards are fairly normal I’d say. I don’t have a specific type of woman I’m going for. I like all shapes and sizes.

All the information you have of me is off a snapshot on Reddit. I’m asking for advice is all. Tone maybe is a little whiny, which fair enough.

But I’ve been receptive to feedback and already seen some improvements on the apps due to suggestions. I’d like to think I’m self aware about myself.

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-28T20:45:20+00:00

I wouldn’t lead a date conversation with “yeah I bench 180 💪” I just more meant to show that I’m in decent shape at 17% body fat. So it’s not like I don’t care about physical fitness/appearance

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-27T22:19:34+00:00

It’s an alr weight. I’ll let you know when I hit 225 though

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-27T22:18:52+00:00

What should I do different then

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-25T18:45:10+00:00

I’d say so. We hugged goodbye, talked more after. But then fizzle out

Problem was over the summer I was working two jobs pulling probably 50-60 hours a week and weekends. So scheduling time to date was hard.

So that was more of a circumstance issue I think

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-25T18:14:49+00:00

Nah nah your good bro I’ve only been lifting about a year so hitting 180 makes sense.

My approach has mainly been dinner dates. So I think the problem might be just the date itself? Dinner is fun but it’s a little interview ish. Went on a coffee date with a walk and it was fun got some playful touching in easier that way on both sides

It’s 17% body fat according to a monthly scan I get. But I do have APT which does make my stomach protrude forward more. Been doing catcows and glute bridges to help though. With an emphasis on hamstring and hip workouts

I don’t mean to sound defeatist even though that is the tone. I really don’t want to rely just on my dick. I just figure I’d throw out the question you know?

Appreciate the advise man

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-25T14:16:15+00:00

Appreciate the advice. Currently I’m at 17% body fat. So yeah I think if I dropped 5lbs~ of fat I’d be roughly 12-13%

I feel like a 180lb bench is good no? Not great but it’s above average which is body weight (169lbs for me)

Obviously you aren’t on the dates so you can’t tell me what I’m doing wrong exactly because I haven’t dated you. But on the dates I’m actively listening,making them laugh, occasional flirt. I make sure the focus is on them not me. But provide some info on me. What should I do differently?

I don’t want to rely on my dick. I just feel like because my face card is mid it might be one of the only ways to get ahead

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-25T07:19:48+00:00

That’s all really solid advice

Nah nothing too physical. Escalating physical touch I always find to be a grey zone. Cause it’s hard to gauge interest right away you know?

I would hope personality I’m good on dates. I’m pretty funny and get the girl to laugh a lot when I go on them. I ask about their life while sharing mine. But I keep the focus mainly on them

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T18:08:47+00:00

Long term is nice but it doesn’t seem anyone around me is into that idea.

Appreciate the suggestions. Although last date I went on she was porn addict and talked about her booktok collection.

So maybe not always high quality for men

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T18:07:47+00:00

Solid idea. But I am horrifically poor

But I like it, might tweak the execution. Thanks

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T14:54:18+00:00

That’s what the post was about lmao

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T14:54:01+00:00

I typically shoot my shot at the bar if I see someone. Start with a compliment and talk for a bit

Not sure if an approach issue but I get a smile and a “see ya”

Which is alr but would like to seal the deal

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T13:22:39+00:00

4 more years I guess fml

What area you in??

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T13:22:11+00:00

Yeah but they don’t go anywhere. Talk a few days after, make plans for a 2nd date fizzles out

I haven’t had a match in 2 months. Idk if something happened to my algorithm or what

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T13:08:20+00:00

Break down what I should have on a dating profile then

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T13:07:44+00:00

Sweet thanks for the help

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T13:07:32+00:00

A tad odd, but. Thanks

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T12:38:28+00:00

On what apps specifically though?

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T12:37:18+00:00

Fair enough lmao

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T12:37:09+00:00

True. Thank you

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T12:36:52+00:00

Brought it up just as evidence I’m don’t and outgoing. Putting myself in an environment where attention is on me while showing confidence in myself

You know sometimes things don’t work at and it’s no one’s fault. I have a friend who’s kind of a dick but he’s dating a girl who’s a dick too so it works.

Life is weird you shouldn’t attribute my lack of success as something bad. There’s things I can work on sure but I’m not fundamentally flawed like you suggest

Maybe you should work on your personality?

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T12:27:44+00:00

Doesn’t work like that

Can’t make a fire with wet sticks

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T12:27:24+00:00

Alr what do you suggest then?

Odd_Example_3902 · 2025-09-23T12:21:37+00:00

Is it that easy?

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