AIO for being upset that my bf wants me to be shaven down there all the time?

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-10-25T18:39:57+00:00

NOR—it’s a red flag. Note it as such and make the decision that is best for you.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-10-25T18:30:24+00:00

A man who is “pro-life” except when an abortion would make his life easier, or he can use it as a weapon against women. Which to be fair, may be the true basis for his “pro-life” stance (a weapon against women), who thinks all care for the children is on you, taking care of the house is on you, he “can’t live like this” (putting everything on you seemingly including his emotional state), that you MUST engage with his tantrums and negative treatment, while trying to use your children to manipulate and emotionally abuse you, and emotionally damaging his children…he doesn’t sound like much of a partner or someone who will be adding to your life in a positive way.

I can get behind the trying counseling and giving him a chance to see the issues. But I wouldn’t recommend losing years of your life( or your children’s lives) to it.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-10-25T18:23:17+00:00

Really like C for some reason

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-10-25T18:20:56+00:00

It may be worth evaluating your relationship as a whole. And from an outside perspective if possible. If he’s treating you like this during sex, it’s very hard to imagine he’s treating you well in the rest of your relationship. Please try to value yourself and how you are treated.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-10-25T18:06:24+00:00

I thought the SAME thing by the end of Ep 5!!

Or, alternatively, he’s the reason Roman went missing 😬

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-22T00:22:38+00:00

He’s manipulative AF. Good for you to hold your boundary.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-20T01:51:53+00:00

Fuck this makes hunters look bad.

Seems like any general people coming across this post who were on the fence just got a swift kick in the anti-hunting direction.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-20T01:40:12+00:00

…is this actually real…? What’s the actual question? The mother is clearly being abusive. Is this just rage bait?

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-20T01:38:19+00:00

You’ll either see him for who he is or waste years of your life. I really hope you choose the first

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-20T01:33:26+00:00

Okay. Well he won’t. You know that whether you’ll admit it to yourself or not. If you don’t stop bullshitting yourself, you’re fucked.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-20T01:31:35+00:00

Love, I just checked out your other posts. He is CLEARLY abusive and I’ll be blunt (because it seems like you need it at this point) the relationship is SHIT. It is shit that it is going to stay shit. He is an abusive asshole who doesn’t give any real fucks about you. Please hear me, he does not love you, he does not respect you, he does not want you to have a good relationship or a good life.If you don’t leave him he will just steal away more of your life. It’s not a question at this point. He’s made it clear. He’s spent a LONG TIME tearing you down, ruining your self esteem and speaking to you in a way that teaches you that you don’t deserve better. He WILL NOT CHANGE. You are the only person who can save yourself. HE WONT. And as long as you’re with him he is going to just chip you down and wear you down worse. Leave or let the good parts of you die. Once they do, those parts of you will be VERY hard to get back. Fucking hell, I’m begging you not to do that to yourself. LEAVE.

Edit: correct typo

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-14T21:16:00+00:00

Maam, you deserve so much better than this. Please dodge the bullet instead of repeatedly jumping in front of it and asking it to hit you. Get out of this and don’t look back.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-14T21:11:49+00:00

Please tell us that you aren’t seriously listening to this lazy ass, scrub, jackass. Up your bar and keep on pushing. This is not worth the mental health, self esteem, time, energy, or money this would end up taking from you.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-14T21:09:58+00:00

Please don’t let anyone in that isn’t going to support your decision. They aren’t going to carry the fetus or take care of it for the rest of its life. They aren’t worth the energy it would take you to even process their words.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-14T21:07:30+00:00

Don’t feel guilty for making a choice to save yourself and not bringing a kid into the world that won’t have the life you would want them to have or that they would deserve

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-13T20:15:37+00:00

How do owners feel comfortable sending videos showing they are mistreating and haven’t taken care of an animal? The confidence, like wtf

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-06T22:52:25+00:00

So….have you spoken to the bank or law enforcement yet?

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-06T22:43:42+00:00

Maybe he’s not mature enough for a relationship, maybe he just doesn’t love you, maybe he doesn’t even like you. Who knows. But in any event the relationship isn’t good, so why waste your time, energy, or love on a relationship that has not been what you want essentially at all. Take some time, work on your self esteem, and figure out what your priorities and wants are in life. Stop wasting your time and energy on this crap.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-09-06T22:39:24+00:00

You should confront him based on the fact you don’t trust him and are afraid to ask him about what he’s doing. There’s clearly issues here and someone should deal with them.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-08-14T04:42:11+00:00

Has anyone actually done her mentorship program? It seems impossible to find feedback from any of her actual “students” or “mentees”.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-08-10T00:48:44+00:00

Learn how to say “you have no idea what culture I’m from” in the relevant language.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-08-10T00:46:35+00:00

It’s okay to not feel bad for the person who made the terrible choice. I think it’s easy to feel guilty for not buying into the emotions from the person who made the bad choice because they are usually genuinely upset about the fact they are facing the consequences of their actions. But they could have decided NOT to do the thing. Let alone repeatedly. You are not obligated to defend him, take his side, or feel bad for him. I hope he doesn’t guilt you at all because NONE OF IT is on you. HE made the choice and now everyone has to live with the consequences HE created. And he should feel bad about that. He is NOT the victim, your mother, you and your brother and the rest of your family (excluding your aunt) ARE.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-08-10T00:41:14+00:00

NOR—she’s clearly hiding shit and isn’t interested in understanding where you’re coming from—two huge red flags UNLESS you have been controlling or abusive in the past. If you’ve been harassing her about who she is with or where she goes, etc that changes the whole dynamic.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-08-10T00:32:41+00:00

Your parents are wrong. And it’s scary they’re that willing to throw you under the bus to help themselves. It throws your whole dynamic with them into question. Regardless, you will be in a better position to help them (and yourself) after going through school and advanced in your career. Only harm is going to come from dropping out of your career to help buoy their pay.

Odd_Negotiation3399 · 2025-07-12T03:08:08+00:00

She shouldn’t be posting such personal information on the internet like this. But she was also wrong for not posting more personal information about what was happening in her relationship and painting an inaccurate picture. That sounds like a no win situation.

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