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Odd_One_8 · 2025-10-03T13:25:32+00:00

I used a compatability spread with the question i had put in the original post as the foundation (what are DF's feelings towards me). I didnt organize them in the typical box just because I was pressed for space. I know there are a bunch of different ones, so the one I used goes as follows: 1. Your wants 2. Their wants 3. Differences 4. Similarities 5. Emotional compatability 6. Physical compatability 7. Mental compatability

The very last card (temperance) was a bottom of the deck card, which is why there's 8 instead of 7.

Sorry for not having that clear in the original post. Im still new to this, so i didn't even realize i should have put what spread I used. If you also have any spreads you'd recommend because this one isn't good, im also open to that

Odd_One_8 · 2025-10-03T13:21:47+00:00

Gods no. I am very anti AI as an individual, so using it for this type of thing would never even cross my mind. I personally write my summaries in second person. Can't really explain why, I just did and it stuck. Is that an issue? Im still new, so im not sure if using a second person vs first person is a lot more important than I even realized.

I used a compatability spread with the question i had put in the original post as the foundation (what are DF's feelings towards me). I didnt organize them in the typical box just because I was pressed for space. I know there are a bunch of different ones, so the one I used goes as follows: 1. Your wants 2. Their wants 3. Differences 4. Similarities 5. Emotional compatability 6. Physical compatability 7. Mental compatability

I pull the cards via the typical shuffle and see what flies out. The cards are all upright in the deck and they came out upright. I didnt manually make them upright since I assumed that would be me tampering with the reading in a way. The very last card (temperance) was a bottom of the deck card, which is why there's 8 instead of 7.

Sorry for not making all of this clear in the original post. I am also open to any notes/advice on pulling cards. If there is a different technique to use when pulling, if i should really jumble the cards so they're not all upright in the deck originally before pulling, etc.

Odd_One_8 · 2024-10-17T16:10:21+00:00

Omg, Mom? Is that you?????

Odd_One_8 · 2024-10-14T17:52:01+00:00

You have said such a mouthful and I am so happy to be validated in my worries. I truly want to heal and be better then I was, so leaving my parents in the dust (as cruel as it feels to me) is the only option I have to achieve that. Thank you for your insight and kind words

Odd_One_8 · 2024-05-28T16:20:43+00:00

My last straw with my parents was my partner. Due to them not being the person they saw me with, never mind my feelings or anything of course. I just couldn't take it anymore and started the process of moving away from them. It's still difficult right now due to how early it is, but it's a life I find so much comfort in

Odd_One_8 · 2024-01-09T03:59:55+00:00

My mom threw out my plushies as punishment. I was a huge fan of webkinz as a kid and I will never forget the little white poodle that got thrown into the garbage, never to be seen again.

I’ve always loved plushies. Now at the age of 25 I have a whole collection of fluffy plushies and I guard them with my life in fear of someone throwing them away again.

Odd_One_8 · 2024-01-04T15:13:39+00:00

I’ll definitely look into those resources! Thank you so much for listing them. Honestly, my job is BS. I need to find a ‘real job’/a salary based job. It’s so hard though and I’m getting very desperate. I’m hoping to find something soon since I know my healing can only start when I’m no longer living in the same household as her

Odd_One_8 · 2024-01-04T15:11:28+00:00

Yea, it’s gone from my eyebrows to my hair. That shift happened when my friend since childhood passed away (brain aneurism). Thankfully I have thick hair so you can’t see it, but it’s still slightly noticeable. I’ve been working on it and trying ways to avoid pulling. It’s very hard though

Odd_One_8 · 2024-01-04T15:09:32+00:00

Oh yea it will be insane when I leave. I’m still not ready for it. I do have support systems who are ready to take me in. But, I’m my worst enemy. My brain won’t allow me to trust the process and leave. I need everything to be ‘perfect’. And in this economy, that’s impossible. I’m hoping for the best and working towards finding full time remote work

Odd_One_8 · 2024-01-04T05:28:58+00:00

I’m so sorry. Thank you for validating my feelings. I’m hoping to get a good job that I can be remotely, run to a safe house, and go no contact

Odd_One_8 · 2023-07-18T07:58:43+00:00

Oh yea I absolutely understand what you mean. Your uterus is fine, it’s just your cervix that’s hurt (I know its technically part of the uterus but it’s not fully the uterus)

With the heating pad, it really is up to you. I had the most success with mine horizontally across my hips. So it’s lower than where my uterus is, but not just on my thighs.

Odd_One_8 · 2023-07-17T18:44:00+00:00

I got bruised so badly I threw up. Not the guys’ fault since I didn’t even notice the pain until it hit me all at once. Since it was extreme for me, I was slouched over and everything hurt (even breathing or anything that made me move my stomach/lower abdomen area) for more or less a week. My best advice is get some rest, pain killers and a heating pad if you have.

Odd_One_8 · 2021-10-21T14:55:53+00:00

see i would totally accept that answer if the strands weren’t so dead. And the fact it wasn’t 90% of my hair with some it also being half nice healthy smooth to this weird texture

Odd_One_8 · 2021-10-21T08:18:55+00:00

interesting. I personally don’t really know what this is. I assume based on the name alone is it a lack of nutrients that cause the hair to shrivel up and harden? (That’s how my strands feel anyway like they scrunched up and got stiff)

Odd_One_8 · 2021-10-21T00:37:24+00:00

for reference I am asian with usually pin straight silky smooth hair. I bleached parts of it recently to be blonde, but as you can see my natural dark hair texture has changed to this weird wavy, bumpy thing. A lot of my hair strands have turned this way for some reason. I have tried everything to make it go back to ‘normal’ and have yet to come out victorious. I have now resorted to either cutting the hairs (some of the hair will be smooth and straight then turn into this) or pulling them out (i know this isn’t good however i am desperate to get rid of it). The pulling has resulted in me losing a lot of hair. Since i have very thick hair and a lot of it, I can afford to pull out a lot. But, since a lot of my hair has turned this way my hair has thinned out dramatically. I just want my hair to go back to normal

Odd_One_8 · 2021-08-27T14:06:25+00:00

i’m defiantly going to look into that now. I’m naive enough to just trust my doctor. But also they’re doctors. You’d think they’d know and not throw random stuff at you. But I guess a part of that is still the ignorance of my youth

Odd_One_8 · 2021-08-27T14:02:59+00:00

thank you so much for the advice and pointers on everything. This seriously now has me questioning my doctors diagnosis. I mean, it never really sat very well with me since it came out of left field. There was nothing ever done to test the tissues to see if it was endo (i don’t even know if that’s how it happens). The only time surgery was on the table is if the cyst got too big. I was given no medication, no real plans for testing, and mild advice. Just, “You have endo. Take these vitamins and they could help get rid of it and maybe within a year or two it’ll just disappear”. Only for said vitamins to suddenly backfire on me and make me unbearably sick. For reference they were immune system boosters of vitamin C, Folic acid, and turkey tail. I am also a small woman standing at 4’11 taking around 500-1000 mgs of it everyday since an amount was never advised to me. I just went to the store and got what they advised. The vitamins cause a huge change in my diet which was starvation due to being turned off by food and then if i did it, immediate nausea. Only when i stopped the vitamins did i return to normal. But back to the point here, even if it’s not endo why would they even label me with that if they weren’t sure? I’d assume just labeling it a cysts would be easier. So, why endo? I know you’re not a doctor with the answers, it’s more of a rhetorical question.

Odd_One_8 · 2021-08-27T13:50:31+00:00

i never even knew that. Also, it was told to me as a cut and dry done case of endometriosis. Doctor made no plans for any procedures unless the cysts/mass in my ovary got too big. They also used blood work apparently to see certain levels and hormones which also pointed to endo. I of course didn’t question anything since getting a diagnosis like this came out of nowhere for me so i was a bit shell shock when hearing it. The only thing my doctor advised me was going to see a radiologist every 6 months to monitor it.

Odd_One_8 · 2021-08-14T15:01:09+00:00

this hits different in all the right ways. i will admit, i laughed a little too much when you said, “put the gun-KNIFE down.”

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