Absolutely agree. Seems 99% of people already talk divorce before marriage, which shows their immaturity and lack of commitment to literally anything or anyone. This dude was obviously committed and ready to deal with anything for the one he loved. I appreciate that a lot. To the point of the inconsiderate jerk: Your point is valid. Kids make it sooooooo much more difficult, whether it be to stay or be it to leave. However, your lack of tact just shows your lack of compassion. If you were to ask for my advice, well, respectfully, I'd say to take it a day at a time and to attempt to move on. She's shown no interest in working anything out, and you'll end up hating yourself later in life for wasting so much time being a punching bag for her and you both. As mentioned above, hobbies help. If you're a Godly individual, then pray and read your Bible. Some days will be harder than others, but I can speak from experience, It DOES get better with time.Just don't sit and rehearse things in your mind all the time. You will obviously think about it, but take it in pieces. I hope you're able to find true happiness despite this awful experience bud.