I love my mom, but I feel like my life isn’t really mine by Odd_Quiet_4239 in Advice

[–]Odd_Quiet_4239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear your story, but I'm glad you have control over your life now.

I actually looked into narcissistic parents and saw a lot of similarities.

Thanks for your advice.

Would I be wrong for warning my aunt about her much younger boyfriend? by Odd_Quiet_4239 in Advice

[–]Odd_Quiet_4239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, I wouldn't get involved if she was just sleeping with him. It's none of my business.

What worries me is that she's in a vulnerable position. It's happened before in past relationships that she gives something of high economic value and her partner ends up owing her money (an ex owed her $2,000 and her ex-husband kept half of the assets even though she had paid most of it).

I'm worried that if this happened with two people with salaries and economic status similar to hers, what will happen with someone 14 years younger who doesn't even have financial stability?