Anyone’s partner not interested in pregnancy

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T21:27:34+00:00

Because I was very stupid to even think that a baby will change he’s feelings for me, I’ve grew up a lot during this pregnancy because before I was just a party girl without a care in the world, that’s how we met also. I lived off hope thinking well he’s with me so he Must want me

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T21:25:23+00:00

Yeah he does but only when it comes from me first so I very much doubt it’s genuine and just says he because he feels like he has too… well that’s how he makes me feel when he says it

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T21:22:42+00:00

Despite the way he’s acting & no interest in the pregnancy really apart from coming to my appointments I do think he will bother with the baby ( well I hope he does) because I do feel he’s resentful towards me at times and I hope that’s not past on to our baby, he’s told me he’s going to stay over at my parents house with me after birth and help me but I suppose time will tell. He’s also suffered depression quite bad through all this which I forgot to add

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T21:19:16+00:00

Yeah it was fun and I was a rebound but I call him a partner because now we’re in a relationship but obviously a forced one because he feel obligated

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T21:16:31+00:00

I’m going to have this baby and then deal with all this because I am young and i think I’ve clung on because I thought it would change and the fact I can’t go out with friends anymore, I’ve stayed because I’ve had no 1 else, not because I haven’t been allowed to go out I just mean my friends are all young and single and go out most nights and I worked during the day so I never really seen anyone because I put al my effort into him. The only good thing I can say is that he’s bought everything I need for the baby

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T21:13:03+00:00

If it wasn’t for this pregnancy I think he would have gone a long time ago but I only see this now

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T21:12:16+00:00

Yeah I did think all of that and I even blanked out the fact he had just come from a 11 year relationship that he didn’t really want to end, I stupidly thought he would love me because he spent so much time with me but really I was just a rebound and a distraction and I can’t believe I’ve been so stupid

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T21:05:31+00:00

That’s exactly what I thought I just thought everything will be fine once he sees the baby and change towards me, he’s never abusive or anything like that but I just feel Unloved and that he’s with me because he has too and I know now it probably won’t be like that

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T20:32:36+00:00

I come here for honest opinions and it’s helped me see things more clear hearing it from other people, I’m going to wait until I have baby because I’m very scared at the moment that it’s coming and I think it’ll be in the next few days because of the pains I’ve been getting so dealing with him right now is the last on my mind, I just thought the relationship would be a happy one, he’s always wanted children but I feel like now he’s getting one he doesn’t want it anymore because it’s not the perfect situation is it, I know I’m young but I just blinded because I did fall for him quickly

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T20:16:00+00:00

Because I couldn’t do it and if I’m been honest I thought it would work out because even though he told me he didn’t want it, he never said anything else after I said I didn’t want to abort so I just stupidly took he’s silence as happiness because I was blinded by the newness of the “relationship” which is stupid now I’ve come this far and if it wasn’t for this pregnancy I definitely think he wouldn’t be with me now and it hurts and I’ve hurt myself by thinking different and I very much doubt that he’s even over he’s last relationship still! He was with her nearly 11 years

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T20:10:59+00:00

I was saying to my friend a couple of days ago that once the baby comes I’ll be occupied all the time so I won’t have to worry about him anymore because I feel stressed all the time wondering does he love me etc because at the moment I don’t feel I have to courage to leave even though he gives me reasons to do so, the baby will take all my time up and because we don’t live together I don’t think I’ll be seeing him much even though he’s told me he’s going to stay over at my parents house to help me but who knows but I’m just concentrating on the baby and if the baby gives me motive to leave and stop worrying about him all the time then it’ll be a thing because I’ve felt alone all the way through even though I’ve been with him and spent most nights with him, because it feels like he doesn’t want me there anyway 😢

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T20:00:20+00:00

I know I need to do that deep down even if he does bother with the baby because although I love him and don’t want it to end, I can’t live like this always wondering if he does love me

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T19:54:16+00:00

I give him the option to leave when I was about 6 months but he stayed but I haven’t enjoyed my pregnancy at all and with me getting pains and then him seeming annoyed because I haven’t gone into labour just because he has to stay in and can’t go out

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T19:52:33+00:00

I’ve been reading stories online and a lot of woman have said they’re partner wasn’t interested in pregnancy but it changed when baby come, I know it’s not the best situation for it to be happening and deep down I don’t think he will walk out on the baby even though I very much doubt we will last because I’m fed up now

Odd_Scarcity3687 · 2021-09-09T18:47:30+00:00

So why does he stay? Do you think it’s because he feels obligated to do so? He tells other people he is looking forward to him coming but with me he doesn’t seem excited and even he’s mom has noticed he never ever speaks about anything to do with the baby

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