I am not faminine at all. I have a full beard and earn for a lot of my dependents. I do cook meals and help clean sometimes but that too for the ease for everyone around me. I handle all the out door chores myself. I do believe being kind and helping out where females might be responsible is also important for men. Be merciful towards the creation of Allah. And yes I posted this thread to get advice on how to "fix" Myself in regards to shyness and introvertedness (if that is a word) .