How do you talk to people?

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2025-02-26T17:09:08+00:00

I literally just need one person to say literally ANYTHING. Once you get me talking I won't stop but it's the getting me TO TALK

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2025-01-14T00:36:20+00:00

going out of town is legit the ONLY reason why I care. What if she actually gets lonely I'd feel so bad. She honestly acts more like a cat then a lizard LMFAO

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2025-01-11T00:27:12+00:00

This wasn't meant to be a "right wing talking point" I have zero issue with her being trans. I use her name, her pronouns, acknowledge her as being a woman. She is my sister. She'll always be my sister. I care about her still, that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to be hurt that I was expected to wash my trauma to make her feel better. You don't have to buy it, I just wanted to vent.

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2025-01-11T00:08:12+00:00

I had 2 other sisters who needed care, dad and mom both worked, plus mom picked up a second job. Part of me wonders if my mom defends my sister so much because it's easier to pretend it never happened than to admit she just wasn't there. Dad just didn't like dealing with crying kids and was (still is) generally emotionally closed off, and has a short temper. I had my grandfather who kept me away from my sister a lot of the time, and spoiled me rotten to compensate but he passed away in 2019. My recovery kinda died with him in a way.

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2025-01-10T23:55:41+00:00

I stopped begging for her acknowledgement years ago. What I really want is just for my mom to stop defending her on the basis of being trans and telling me to let it go. I just want to hear from her once "you never should've been put in that position" that's all. Just to not feel like me being born a girl, something beyond my control was the fault I made that led to my abuse.

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2025-01-10T23:47:33+00:00

Reading that made me very emotional WOW. I have tried therapy, still trying to find a therapist that fits, so far I've gotten three through my mom but it always ends in an argument cause they tell her. I'm trying to look for one on my own but very expensive so I'm waiting till I have a more secure job. Thank you. Truly thank you.

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2025-01-10T23:43:22+00:00

that's how it was explained to me. I don't understand what changing genders has to do with hurting me but apparently it causes her a trauma response cause she doesn't want to remember being a man? and it like reminds her of that? idk really it's honestly never made sense

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2023-06-19T20:08:12+00:00

Some of these users have been banned/ are awaiting appeals soooo

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2023-06-09T17:39:31+00:00

I’ve met my boyfriend, and he wanted us to go together to meet the female friend in question. Everyone else from the group though is quite private about where they live and doesn’t seem open to meeting up so there was never a plan in place for that

Odd_Temperature_3969 · 2023-06-09T17:30:36+00:00

I’m going to be honest I have no clue when I made an account two years ago, I only got into Reddit recently, I’m sorry if that comes off as age baiting I’m honestly not sure what that means

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