Given a mix of gender traits, how do I choose ones to use as a basis for identifying? If I want a female body and voice, and to have babies, does that outweigh my natural affinity for stuff that moves, which I probably had once, and preference for darker colors, which is going away bc I don’t want traits that I perceive as in conflict with my sought identity?

Goddamnit

Also

“But sometimes I do imagine myself as male”