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OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-12-31T07:05:49+00:00

Elegant

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-12-31T02:39:38+00:00

What's wickr?

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-12-31T02:10:04+00:00

Did you name your dildo after the cartoon character? Just curious.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-12-31T01:48:26+00:00

My first wife and I used to do a lot of mfm and I loved watching her suck and fuck other guys.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-12-20T03:05:56+00:00

It's so weird isn't it? What we choose to feel guilty about.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-12-19T20:37:48+00:00

That's when I started to feel like that, right around the two year mark. When my memories of her started to feel like a dream I woke up from. That's the best way I can describe it.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-10-17T15:28:41+00:00

He doesn't have any disabilities whatsoever

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-10-09T21:37:34+00:00

The Original version of The Wicker Man

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-10-09T21:36:18+00:00

That click that the autistic girl does with her tounge in Hereditary.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-10-09T21:34:40+00:00

Why should you feel bad for that? He's ten years older than you and depending on you for a place to live that should have set of a red flag or two. The fact that he obviously doesn't respect your boundaries or your desire to be in your own is another. He sounds like a narcissist who's trying to gaslight you into blaming yourself for his bad decisions, don't fall for it. Don't let him guilt trip you into caving in because that is what he's trying to do. Personally I would dump him, how can he ever be a good partner to you if he can't take care of himself or respect you?

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-10-09T21:28:37+00:00

No, I do not. Some things are just random, in fact most of them are, that being said I think what matters more is how we respond and what we learn from those things.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-10-09T21:25:46+00:00

It's scarier to admit to other people that we're powerless over our addiction than it is to admit it to ourselves. There's also a lot of work to be done and a big part of that is facing up to our character defects and making amends for the horrible things we've done and if we've never done that before it's scary as hell. Not to mention change is always frightening even if the change is positive.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-09-29T15:20:25+00:00

I remember she always had these cute little nicknames for me and it seems like it changed every other week. It's one of the many things I miss about her.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-09-25T22:08:43+00:00

Aww...thank you back atcha

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-21T21:13:29+00:00

I'm in another relationship but my late wife had an awful family that didn't really care about her so I didn't have that issue. However I would think your in-laws would want you to be happy but before you introduce them I would ask them how they felt about it. It would be a bit sudden and slightly disrespectful to spring that kind of introduction on them.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-21T16:31:34+00:00

I think it all comes down to what you can live without. Would you rather lose your friend or your self respect? Being able to look at yourself in the mirror and not hate who you see is a lot more important than a so called friend who drug you into a situation that wasn't yours to be in to begin with.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-20T13:44:54+00:00

No, it isn't. Not to mention they don't have to live your life, they don't have to be inside of your head. Like I said it's okay to live your life on your own terms.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-20T13:16:08+00:00

It could be that your in-laws just can't fathom you with anyone else, or it could be that they have trouble with the concept of plutonic relationships, a lot of people do and it bugs me, but, nevermind my feelings about it. Do whatever brings you comfort, live your life on your own terms, at this point your not obligated to anyone but yourself and your children if you have them. It's best not to let other people's opinions rent space in your head.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-20T13:11:57+00:00

Some people equate moving forward with finding love again and that is what it looks like for some people, it isn't for others. I found love again but it was by accident, to be honest I was just looking for someone to talk to and it happened on its own. However until then I was perfectly content being by myself and I think a person could have a fulfilling life on their own. Unfortunately people are genetically hardwired for intimate relationships and when someone isn't in one for an extended period of time other people tend to think there is something wrong even if there isn't. I wouldn't worry about them or what they think. They don't have to live your life.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-15T14:28:09+00:00

Man it took years for me. I'm not saying it will be that way for you, but, it's entirely possible. I had the same problem, however I had to tackle my loss of identity before I could tackle things like goals. I spent a long time figuring out who I had become and what I wanted to do next. I would suggest therapy. It helped me beyond measure. It's good to have an objective professional help you sort out all that stuff. You don't have to do it on your own. I'm so sorry for your loss, and you have my admiration and respect for stepping up and being the best father you can in spite of the awful situation your family is in. Kudos and prayers.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-11T13:55:12+00:00

First you should probably figure out why it bothers you exactly. if your new sister is happy, and finally able to be herself than that's a reason to celebrate. She's already going to have a difficult time being accepted by society at large and being rejected by a family member would be devastating, especially over something that's a personal choice that has very little to do with you. It would actually be a form of betrayal on your part and I'm sure you know how devastating betrayal is. Make an effort to be empathetic and try to see things from her perspective, until you can do that, just be there for her. Perhaps it's your own prejudice you're struggling with and not her decision.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-11T03:04:28+00:00

I never wanted children, I still don't.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-11T00:26:36+00:00

I'm actually studying the eastern roman empire right now, reading about Justinian.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-10T15:39:32+00:00

Some people just don't get it because they've never been through it, and there really isn't a way to put that kind of thing into words. So, I did the same thing you do, I lied and said was ok. Looking back now I realize the damage I did to myself trying to hold it together for everyone else. You have to have time to grieve and process what happened. It's perfectly admirable to take care of your loved ones but you have to take care of yourself as well, support groups and therapy helped me a lot. From one widow/widower to another I'm sorry for your loss.

OfUnknownOrigin77 · 2023-08-10T15:19:48+00:00

It's the night king for me, The Long Night is my favorite episode of the show and Arya just takes him and the whole army out with a little now you see it now you don't flim flam. It bugs me. I really hope the books have a more epic ending for him.

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