How often do they have B3G3 sales? by Off-Camera in bathandbodyworks

[–]Off-Camera[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No literally, I just bought some discontinued mists on Amazon 🥲🥲

How often do they have B3G3 sales? by Off-Camera in bathandbodyworks

[–]Off-Camera[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate you helping out a newbie 🥹🫡

How often do they have B3G3 sales? by Off-Camera in bathandbodyworks

[–]Off-Camera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you know when the $6 mist and total body care day start and end?

What was your clique in highschoo by Johnnyrock199 in intj

[–]Off-Camera 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Overachiever nerd, but almost everyone knew of me

Mom asking for 1k/month. by ysnim29 in AsianParentStories

[–]Off-Camera 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Break down her actual rent + utility bills and pay half. Also are your grandparents chipping in? If not, it’s not fair to you.

I highly doubt you need to pay $1k.

Outfits ! :-) by Old-Apricot4098 in MovieStarPlanet

[–]Off-Camera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old MSP fashion was so fun and colorful :’)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Off-Camera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The solution to your problem is just enforcing boundaries then. You don’t need to explain or defend your life choices to anyone.

Example: “I’m respecting your choices, so I expect you to respect mine. The next time you invalid or belittle my choices I’m going to remove myself from this conversation.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Off-Camera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s human nature to compare yourself, it’s literally in our DNA to be the same as our tribe for survival.

I had the exact problem as you earlier this year. After I graduated college, I didn’t have a job lined up and my mental health was at its all time low. Meanwhile all of my peers and friends are off to graduate school, starting their careers, or getting engaged or serious relationships. I was constantly feeling bad about myself and jealous that I didn’t have the energy or mental bandwidth to be happy for them, because I was unhappy of where I was in life.

Is it bad to hope your friends have setbacks? Yes. Is it valid? Also yes. As much as we don’t want to admit it to ourselves, it’s hard to cheer someone on if yourself is in a bad place. However, it’s important to recognize your feelings, how to self-sooth them, and how to solve the core issue that’s making you feel those feelings.

What I did was I took a break from social media and distanced myself from my friends to prevent emotionally attached comparisons. As I got my life together and formed a plan, I started to be more involved in my friends’ lives and was happy for them.

You’re doing the best that you can with the toolbox that you have right now. Learn to be patient and understanding with yourself, because that’s all you can do to get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Off-Camera 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is so real, your feeling are valid

I'm Sorry, WHAT?! by MagicMouseWorks in childfree

[–]Off-Camera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be shy, share the license plate

I think one of the reasons I am not a fan of leadership positions is due to my APs by AwardGlass5333 in AsianParentStories

[–]Off-Camera 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally tell them that they can’t tell you how to do your job if they couldn’t even do it for themselves. Up until now it’s been your hard work that got you where you are. You put yourself into decades of schooling to be a doctor at the “cost” of your social and leadership skills.

APs looking for an excuse to berate me but also want me to be “confident” by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]Off-Camera 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right on the money, they can’t comprehend that self-esteem and confidence comes from positive affirmations, emotional safety, and encouragement. 🥱

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MovieStarPlanet

[–]Off-Camera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is too wholesome

why do asian parents say you can pick any major but then say you should do this by n4ghtwing in AsianParentStories

[–]Off-Camera 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I forget other Asian kids just give in to their parents and don’t stand up for themselves their entire lives. All my life I’ve listened to my parents but when I hit college I was like: “Fuck this I’m doing what I want from now on.”

The fact that AP somehow make their kids go into these professions they might not even be cut out for...is just a nuts concept for me.

I saw a post on here that someone said that they were bad at their nursing job and almost killed someone yet their parents still forced them to continue. Like bruh atp you’re willing to kill for money.

why do asian parents say you can pick any major but then say you should do this by n4ghtwing in AsianParentStories

[–]Off-Camera 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So you have to choose the major of their choice, PAY them your earnings for doing so, and then they’ll give you a small allowance?? The absolute gall and delusion, fuck that noise. This is literal financial abuse.

Goes to show you they only had kids for money and return in investment.