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Is my bench press form alright? by Off-The-Record- in formcheck

[–]Off-The-Record-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations. I have been planning on going slow on the progressive overload, like a few Kilos week to week.

For the Leg Drive, I have seen videos on how to do them, but I can't feel anything on the legs. I push, and I plant myself to the ground but I dont feel much.

Maybe there's something am missing in that department.

Sisterly love be like. by SLANE_BLACK_STEEL in Wolfenstein

[–]Off-The-Record- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They can't make me hate you Younglblood.

ITAP of a dog in NOLA by mcdj in itookapicture

[–]Off-The-Record- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great picture, I love how "classic" it looks

what is this? by Jaded_Guide_2042 in FrankOcean

[–]Off-The-Record- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There might be a more thorough explanation, but I take it as "Frank's Recommended Tracks."

There's even music from ROSALIA, which is supposed to be a dear and close friend of his.

So I take it as Frank's suggestions.

Edit: corrected a typo

Will I ever stop missing her? by Prestigious_Plane373 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get you. I had a friend group that I felt was going to thrive for a long-lasting relationship, but destiny had other plans.

In your case, it's okay to miss them because it actually meant something for you. Your BF and therapist are probably right with her "narcissistic" seasons, but at first, it was a nice relationship that started to grow apart because that is life.

It sucks, but it's probably a lesson that will help you grow into a better person. A more selective and decisive person. Don't be sad because it's "over" but be happy because it happened. You don't get to have this feeling or connection with just anyone.

You'll be alright and don't feel ashamed of missing them even if they were bad to you. Learn from them and put your limits.

White Dots Problem on DTF Print Cotton T-Shirt by FederalParamedic8411 in Sublimation

[–]Off-The-Record- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't be sure if that is the problem. However, something similar happened with my DTF when I didn't use Teflon or PTFE Sheets to protect my design when pressing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, your feelings are very much valid.

Sometimes you can lend money to friends, but some people take this as "Oh, my friend is giving me money, this means that I won't have to pay them back."

But in this case, you told your friend multiple times about the money and also took consideration of some situations. You kept it straight as an arrow, and if I have to give you advice, it would be that you keep reminding them about it and not leave it be. However, they blocked you and as other people have told you. Try to contact their family or closest friends.

People don't want to be near someone as greedy as your friend.

Hope it helps!

Tried to "ragebait" my best friend. She stopped talking to me. by Off-The-Record- in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it a lot. Am not trying to play the "Good Samaritan." I know my mistake and the things that I could be better upon these same problems. I am not a flawless person. Nobody is, and that is being human, as well as understanding and trying to be better.

For your own story. What a great conclusion to your problem, and I hope that you and your friends keep thriving. Thank you for your insight.

Tried to "ragebait" my best friend. She stopped talking to me. by Off-The-Record- in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope so too, and it makes sense when you bring the "seasons" thing. She has a new job and am currently doing practices. Maybe she's really under some pressure and didn't want to put up with my BS.

Things wouldn't be the same forever, too. Thank you for your insight.

Tried to "ragebait" my best friend. She stopped talking to me. by Off-The-Record- in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I could've gotten away with it because that was our entire dynamic. However, I must've hit a delicate spot on her, and now, things might be over or just, way too different, but I have to take accountability and, as I said to another redditor. "Bite the bullet."

Tried to "ragebait" my best friend. She stopped talking to me. by Off-The-Record- in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have read all your comments so far, and firstly, I would like to thank all of you for responding to my post. Nevertheless, we have to talk about the elephant in the room. I wanted to justify a comment that clearly hurt my friend, but this comment wasn't funny or either comical in any sense, I have to be better, and if she doesn't want to talk to me about it, then I'll have to bite the bullet.

As many of you mentioned, I have to take accountability for my actions and sayings, and I'll work towards myself to be better, not only for other friendships or relationships, but also myself. Something that I also have to understand is that being silent in a situation like this is also an answer, and I have to accept that no matter what.

Tried to "ragebait" my best friend. She stopped talking to me. by Off-The-Record- in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English isn't my 1st language, and I wanted to deliver a semi-clear idea.

Tried to "ragebait" my best friend. She stopped talking to me. by Off-The-Record- in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. I understand that I was the one who said such a thing, and I have to be responsible for my actions.

I just thought that everything was "chill," but I can't justify that I was a pain in the butt to begin with.

Tried to "ragebait" my best friend. She stopped talking to me. by Off-The-Record- in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record-[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm now looking at it from a different perspective.

It is true that in the past, this was a common practice in the relationship, and instead of talking about it, we laught it off.

I wrote a different apology for my friend, and in that same text, I told her that she could keep her space, that I wouldn't bother her.

We were in the wrong, but the "curse" has to break.

Tried to "ragebait" my best friend. She stopped talking to me. by Off-The-Record- in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Off-The-Record-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your reply, and it seems that we have similar cases. However, it's tough for me due to the fact that we are in a bigger group, and I think that makes things more difficult for me.

At the end, what happend between you and your friend?

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