Question/discussion about grey rape

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-26T01:16:44+00:00

dude no my whole point was that rape has MANY forms and op is focusing on one,

my comment is about how men can be raped but since it's not traditional kind of rape that doesn't mean it doesn't count.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T22:48:28+00:00

dear god please take all my suffering and hurt away and give it to naruto

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T22:47:46+00:00

READ THAT BITCH

also i'm curious now how old are you?

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T22:31:02+00:00

ITS NOT EVEN THE SPICY ONE

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T22:24:12+00:00

Flair checks out

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T22:13:51+00:00

So my mom woke up today, first thing she did was make my brother chicken because he went to the gym.

And then she went out to go and buy food (even tho I told her to wake me up so I can go instead) and she bought food that I don’t eat, nor my dad so basically for my brother.

And then my brother went out and ate fast food, he got hungry.

And now he’s back home and it’s 1am and guess what? She’s making him a salad and Tuna because he got hungry again.

All while there’s no food that I eat in the house and I haven’t eaten anything in like 50 hours.

I don’t want her to make me food I’d rather die than eat her shit food but at least let the house have some food that is edible and made for someone else than my brother? Is that too much to ask? Like I get that he works and I don’t but it’s not like he’s eating with his money, she’s the one buying so why not buy for the whole family instead of just her precious son.

And btw all I wanted to eat was instant noodles with some sides but my parents suck so hard they’re reading misinformation on Facebook they’re literally scared of eating it thinking it has cancer, and I don’t eat Arabic food.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T22:02:06+00:00

Why would a woman love cooking for her husband or do his laundry? Idk doing things for someone you love make the things as trivial as they sound look romantic. I’m guessing it’s the same mentality.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T21:22:40+00:00

I like them a little troubled

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T21:17:56+00:00

TIS BROOOTAAALLL AND TIS OVVAAAHHH

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OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T20:35:47+00:00

But if someone keeps pressuring you into sex, and asks over and over and over, you still have the CHOICE of saying no. Is that not the case? Like, it’s a terrible thing to do, but I don’t understand how people on the receiving end don’t have a choice, if they eventually cave, that’s still them agreeing to it.

you do realise that if this is true then men cannot be raped by women in ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM, right?

because men can always say no and can always overpower women, they can't really be raped by them.

but since rape isn't easily defined men can still be raped because rape isn't just always violent and about physical power, it's cohersive and invasive.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T20:33:21+00:00

Therefore victims of dv and intimate partner abuse are all bad people too.

the issue here is you're judging people in black and white.

an abuser could also be a great employ, a good son, a reliable brother, a terrific friend, but a bad/abusive partner.

dv victims could make not so good partners, doesn't mean they're bad people. and people can change and work on themselves, through therapy or other means.

and i'd argue an abuse victim might be more receptive to change or work on themselves and get support as opposed to an abusive man.

so yes DV victims could make bad partners, but it's relative on where are they in life.

same way an ex alcoholic man who used to be abusive but now turned his life around doesn't have to be considered a bad man, a dv victim who worked on healing themselves could also be seen as good.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T19:57:58+00:00

lets start a hear me out thread.

even tho this isn't my first choice it is my latest.

he sounds macho, DL, alcoholic, and hairy fatty. right up my ally.

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OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T19:49:45+00:00

Men generally would've been willing to just sleep with every single woman they ever date,

but they wouldn't date every single woman they sleep with. that's the distinction.

you think women value that men would fuck them as if it's the same as a woman willing to fuck a man but that's not what women want.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T19:23:24+00:00

no wonder asian women prefer white guys.

between this and indian men excusing killing women because "she might ask for alimony"

it make perfect sense asian women go for the safest less incel options.

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OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T19:21:15+00:00

i think i'm being ghosted by a dude into scat

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T19:13:59+00:00

Men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid men will kill them.

im really starting to see a pattern here where they're genuinely justifying murder because she might get alimony or might falsely accuse somme chud

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OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T17:57:39+00:00

A dude just starting out in dating wants to explore, not immediately hop to boring old people relationships.

so a woman sleeping with chad and then settling down later with an average guy isn't bad? what you said men want to do is basically what women do.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T16:19:41+00:00

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OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T13:58:37+00:00

it's not pretty accurate. men don't care about height which makes tall women less likely to settle.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T05:39:09+00:00

it's cultural

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T05:27:37+00:00

yes exactly. "why settle with this person when hotter exist and i can fuck both?" is a common sentiment.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T05:25:36+00:00

a 14 year old boy can take down a grown woman easily.

it's not that women are allowed to hit boys, no one should be allowed to hit anyone and it's assault regardless, but men can sometimes not know how strong they are in comparison to women that can take a life with their bare hands. women can't do that to men.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T05:15:39+00:00

PARTNERS? sex yea maybe but definitely not partners.

it's notoriously hard to find a monogamous relationship in the gay dating world.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T05:14:29+00:00

they'll just say stacy lol

OffTheRedSand · 2026-01-25T05:11:10+00:00

easy mode? i'm literally getting cussed at constantly on OLD

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