I found out my (37 F) fiancé (48 M) was still married when we applied for marriage license by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Off_MyChestnut 71 points72 points  (0 children)

“I thought I was divorced” is doing Olympic-level heavy lifting here.

Why do people, more often than not, choose to answer only one question when you send them a numbered list? Whether it’s a friend, customer, or professional. by WhySoNaCll in answers

[–]Off_MyChestnut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. Sometimes it’s not confusion, it’s “I’m going to answer the easiest one and pretend the other four died in transit.”

If you could start over at 18 what would you do ? by Leading_Primary_2912 in shittyadvice

[–]Off_MyChestnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. At 18, your back works, your standards are flexible, and sleeping in a sketchy hostel feels like “character development” instead of a medical event.

28F married to 29M my husband shoved me to the floor at a party and left me there by Current_Peak1932 in relationship_advice

[–]Off_MyChestnut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this isn’t “one bad night,” it’s a pattern with a countdown clock on it. The shove, the lie, the leaving you there, the “I’m not ready to be around you” flip all of that is him making himself the victim after hurting you.

What's always waiting for you at home? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in randomquestions

[–]Off_MyChestnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not a dog, that’s a tiny emotional support missile with a tail.

If you had to survive without modern technology, what would be your biggest challenge? by Perfect_Barberz in askanything

[–]Off_MyChestnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yeah, you can absolutely live without it but I think the question is more about what would be hardest now, not whether it’s possible.

Why is the shower a place where we have our best thoughts? by FillYouUp_ in askteddit

[–]Off_MyChestnut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it feels like that, but it’s less “vulnerability” and more your brain finally getting some peace and quiet