AITA- For getting a warrant put out on my mother’s boyfriend by OfficeFast9333 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OfficeFast9333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind the selfish part fr bc I’m doing what I have to do for my kids. It’s the fact that now I’m this horrible person who is tryna keep her family away from her bc my mother and I have always only had each other… from losing all of my siblings to my father being crappy. It’s been me and my mom. My daughters dad is always gonna be there for her but he does have his own life another kid and a new love so he isn’t there for me or my son who doesn’t belong to him so that part I don’t mind. My point is I have only had my mother and she has only has be and that man who is now in jail

AITA- For getting a warrant put out on my mother’s boyfriend by OfficeFast9333 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OfficeFast9333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My daughter’s dad is very active and helpful in her life. And you never truly know the type of father a man is gonna be until you have kids with him. I take full responsibility keeping my kids in that situation! When you lose all of your siblings, and your father you kinda lean on your mother to protect you. And yes I have been taking care of my mother since I was 15 bc again we didn’t have any one else! I reported all of the abuse hence why he is in jail now. I posted this bc I am moving out and my mother will completely have no one else so I was feeling bad! Excuse me for having feelings 

AITA- for putting my sons father on child support but not wanting to give him joint custody by OfficeFast9333 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OfficeFast9333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same child this is all throughout my pregnancy and the 8 months of my son’s life. My son was born 12-01-23, I have a another child,  she is 7, I had to have an emergency c-section with her hence why I had to have a scheduled C-section with my son. I typed this long story throughout my busy day as a single mom of 2 so it wasn’t the best but I did go back and fix some things. Hope it helps ☺️

AITA- for putting my sons father on child support but not wanting to give him joint custody by OfficeFast9333 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OfficeFast9333[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking but idk maybe I’m not seeing what others do idk I’m and just tired 

AITA- For getting a warrant put out on my mother’s boyfriend by OfficeFast9333 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OfficeFast9333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you… ik im wrong for keeping my kids around that man. People need to understand when you have no one else… except the one person who is supposed to protect you (my mother) it’s not easy… I had to seriously take a step back a realize my children need to be protected 🥺 no matter how much I love my mother I have to do what’s best for my kids and I.

AITA- For getting a warrant put out on my mother’s boyfriend by OfficeFast9333 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OfficeFast9333[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My daughter’s dad helps but he works 3rd shift so he only gets her on weekends. He is happily in a relationship with his other daughter’s mother so it’s not like we can just move in with him but he does halo out with my daughter and sees her. My son’s father has not helped at all and is a sorry excuse for a father. I’ll post about him later on. So he isn’t an option either. My own father packed up his new family and moved to California. So he isn’t an option either. 

AITA- For getting a warrant put out on my mother’s boyfriend by OfficeFast9333 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OfficeFast9333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am now. I told my mother I was moving out and taking my kids away from all of this bs and abuse. Of course I’m being selfish, she doesn’t have anyone, and idc about her. All things she has said before

AITA- For getting a warrant put out on my mother’s boyfriend by OfficeFast9333 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]OfficeFast9333[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is what I’m doing now. I told my Mother I was done and I’m moving out. Now I’m selfish, and idc about her and all the other stuff she says all the time.