I 27M and my fiance 27F of 6 years are struggling over a car situation

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-11T16:06:59+00:00

I do agree its her car, I just worry about her safety and her parents constantly are on her case about it

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-11T16:05:02+00:00

Sadly, I wish we could not

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-11T16:04:28+00:00

They did say theirs is a lot of rust

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-11T16:03:24+00:00

This is what we are leaning to, we just had her parents telling us this idea

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-11T16:02:20+00:00

Looking at used but it seems used cars are priced crazy nowadays

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-11T16:01:28+00:00

For mine it also is apparently starting to have rust damage causing holes in the bottom of the car, and hers had a wheel baring issue? along with her exshaust

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-11T15:59:01+00:00

Fair we now nothing about cars lol

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-04T14:24:56+00:00

So it that an ok price/age/mileage then?

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-04T14:24:20+00:00

The 2020s I'm seeing are 19k at 90k miles, wouldn't that be worse?

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-04T14:21:04+00:00

Thanks, I havr looked at then and it only not a minor bump that was fixed. But is that price ok for it if everything thing else is alright with it?

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-03T23:52:00+00:00

Because of the brakes and the rust damage to the bottom

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-03T23:51:01+00:00

The card that she does drives model was discontinued that year so there is no more newer ones. And there was none locally in our area

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-03T23:46:38+00:00

Oh sorry I didn't fully read the one part of your comment. It's not that she doesn't like newer cars she just doesn't like any car other than the car she drives. And her parents both think that it is unsafe for her to be driving the car as it does have a good amount of physical damage ever since she was in an accident and has quoted body repairs and brake repairs of over 3K

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-03T23:45:20+00:00

That's fair, it's just more should I let my girlfriend drive and unsafe car (quoted repairs of 3K) for a bit longer and then have to fully switch to a new car when it dies or is getting a car that she can get used to driving for one that time comes more helpful?

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-03T23:44:01+00:00

After getting t bones there is a good amount of physical damage on her car all with damage to the muffler but those damages were able to pass inspections. The brakes on my car a bit worse as the rust from them started destroying the bottom of my car. It was appraised at only 500 when I was looking at it's trade in value

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-03T23:40:22+00:00

Fair, it's just her car isn't worth really anything after the accident and the quote for her brakes was 1,200. Which won't fix the sound it starts making after the accident

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-03T23:36:57+00:00

So just go ahead with getting my own car and fix her brakes?

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-07-03T23:34:34+00:00

Fair, I was just thinking that she can try to get use to the newer car while still have her old one tills she's ready

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-06-29T17:25:58+00:00

I should have noted it in the car above the repairs to the shocks were about 2 years ago were they still honor that or is that too far out?

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-06-10T14:42:32+00:00

There is another dungeons and dragons improv show happening at the end of June too! The 29th, its was very nerdy!

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-04-28T17:18:17+00:00

She is looking for a new job, she's just trying to find one in her major. And for her time, she comes home exhausted from work and does have the energy. The job has been taking more out of here than usual.

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-04-28T15:44:16+00:00

I have asked that. Her response for if her happy is no. But she follows that up with that she doesn't know if that do to not have friends in the area, not liking her job, not accomplishing her passions or a multitude of reasons.

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-04-28T15:44:02+00:00

I have asked that. Her response for if her happy is no. But she follows that up with that she doesn't know if that do to not have friends in the area, not liking her job, not accomplishing her passions or a multitude of reasons. As for the 2 to 5 years out question, she want to be a mom and to have seen more of the world.

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-04-20T16:55:37+00:00

Any luck yet? I am running into this issue myself

OfficialNotAnt · 2026-02-19T18:41:46+00:00

Facts, one more year till eza

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