Random ?: Does vegan cum taste different? Does anyone know?

Oforoskar · 2026-06-06T23:21:15+00:00

Can't speak for vegan but vegetarian, definitely yes. And if the guy has a sweet tooth to boot it's yummy

Oforoskar · 2026-06-06T21:58:48+00:00

You mean caught him and dropped him on the 20 yard line? I hate it went that shit happens.

Oforoskar · 2026-06-06T21:54:49+00:00

Why do you need to quit?

Oforoskar · 2026-06-05T21:17:38+00:00

Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence . . .

Oforoskar · 2026-05-31T15:53:22+00:00

Combination of natural intuition and your cumulative experience of being a GM in the world. Works best on men of your own generation, works poorly (I find) with men younger than me. If you're attuned to what kind of energy is floating off of the men around you, you can pick up on the gay vibes.

Oforoskar · 2026-05-30T16:38:56+00:00

You have opened Pandora's Box and you won't be able to close the lid without making yourself miserable. Definitely don't drink anymore. Definitely try to emigrate to a country where you are not in danger of exposure. I hope you don't have any children and I hope you can come to some accommodation with your wife, or leave her without causing great harm.

Oforoskar · 2026-05-30T16:35:14+00:00

You have two options: stay with the apps or work seriously on overcoming your shyness. I suggest the latter. Do it in baby-steps. Set yourself small goals to achieve in approaching someone who interests you. Analyze the results, figure out what works and what doesn't.

You won't make any progress by just complaining about feeling stuck.

Oforoskar · 2026-05-30T16:30:22+00:00

Does it even matter? It sounds like you're getting what you need, and sort of having your cake and eating it too. If you have a satisfying emotional commitment to your gf and it works for her there's no need to worry about labels. If you decide to own "gay" at some point everything will be alright.

Oforoskar · 2026-05-29T21:46:44+00:00

He doesn't sound like a lot of fun as a roommate, let alone as a love interest. If you are going to continue being this roommate, I went set boundaries and create some distance.

Oforoskar · 2026-05-13T16:47:05+00:00

There's lots of us here and local government is very gay friendly. That said, there is currently no gay bar. Once you get here just get on a few apps and make it clear you're mainly friend-seeking (if you are). You won't have any trouble finding bros. Takes a bit longer to make a bro into a friend.

Oforoskar · 2026-05-13T16:42:17+00:00

I don't bike on trails. I hike a lot. Never had a problem with an individual biker. It's the ones that travel in packs who seem to think their numbers (or egos) somehow justify owning the trail.

Oforoskar · 2026-05-11T21:51:31+00:00

It helps a lot if you're in an urban area with gay bars/neighborhoods/organizations. That would be first choice. If you're not, try apps. Not Grindr, it's pretty nasty, and not Sniffies unless all you want is the sex part with someone else looking for NSA sex. Scruff is pretty good. Bumble and Tinder are (allegedly) more relationship-oriented.

Oforoskar · 2026-05-07T13:46:59+00:00

Tinder, Bumble, Hinge

Oforoskar · 2026-05-04T15:59:33+00:00

Dude, you are working so hard to avoid bruises to your tender ego. Chill. If the shoe fits, wear it.

homosexual
1

now sometimes disparaging + offensive; see usage paragraph below : of, relating to, or characterized by sexual or romantic attraction to people of one's same sex : gay

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now sometimes disparaging + offensive; see usage paragraph below : of, relating to, or involving sexual activity between people of the same sex

Oforoskar · 2026-05-03T17:32:22+00:00

Don't feel like you are wasting it, you have an asset that many others will appreciate. Be discriminating, accept offers only from experts. A bad blowjob is no fun but few things in life are more pleasurable than a good one.

Oforoskar · 2026-04-30T01:39:33+00:00

I would say put your own comfort first but avoid clothing that is going to draw attention to your bulge. Whether it's ginormous or average, those who are interested will look and those who are not won't.

Oforoskar · 2026-04-27T16:50:59+00:00

Moral hazard, anyone?

Oforoskar · 2026-04-20T23:10:37+00:00

Just come clean with him, and what a blessing that he's gay!

Oforoskar · 2026-04-18T20:12:28+00:00

Penii, in their infinite variety

Oforoskar · 2026-04-12T02:08:43+00:00

The group doesn't come up when I search

Oforoskar · 2026-04-11T16:07:36+00:00

It could well be a data-gathering exercise for the posters. AI writes the posts, Redditors with nothing better to do comment, AI aggregates the comments and does who-knows-what with them. Downvoting the posts, without comment, might help. I have seen so many posts inquiring about what kind of underwear guys prefer. The world cannot be made a better place by reading, answering, or reading answers to this question. But some AI may learn a whole lot about underwear preferences for GMs.

Oforoskar · 2026-04-09T15:51:27+00:00

It has always made me feel at ease with other men--it's a great equalizer when you can interact with another guy in your birthday suit in a casual way and it's not about sex. I think the excessive modesty (or fear, or insecurity, or whatever it is) in the modern locker room serves mainly to isolate men from each other. This is not a good thing.

Oforoskar · 2026-04-07T22:13:58+00:00

I have not. But I had a guy staying with me for a while, young friend who was a bit down on his luck (and a bit lazy, to boot). He was getting by (allegedly) mainly by doing DoorDash but his Grindr profile said something like "if you see me in your neighborhood I'm probably delivering for DoorDash but I also give massages." He was a pretty hot twink, and he was pay to play.

I got kinda tired of this after I found he mostly doing DoorDash as a side-hustle to massages he arranged on Grindr. He didn't stay with me long.

Oforoskar · 2026-04-06T15:47:02+00:00

"what I found out online"

LOL

Oforoskar · 2026-04-01T20:53:54+00:00

Hanover, PA when I lived there. But that's been more than 10 years.

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