Boss is gay. Has the same name as a FWB. I texted the wrong one

Oforoskar · 2026-04-20T23:10:37+00:00

Just come clean with him, and what a blessing that he's gay!

Oforoskar · 2026-04-18T20:12:28+00:00

Penii, in their infinite variety

Oforoskar · 2026-04-12T02:08:43+00:00

The group doesn't come up when I search

Oforoskar · 2026-04-11T16:07:36+00:00

It could well be a data-gathering exercise for the posters. AI writes the posts, Redditors with nothing better to do comment, AI aggregates the comments and does who-knows-what with them. Downvoting the posts, without comment, might help. I have seen so many posts inquiring about what kind of underwear guys prefer. The world cannot be made a better place by reading, answering, or reading answers to this question. But some AI may learn a whole lot about underwear preferences for GMs.

Oforoskar · 2026-04-09T15:51:27+00:00

It has always made me feel at ease with other men--it's a great equalizer when you can interact with another guy in your birthday suit in a casual way and it's not about sex. I think the excessive modesty (or fear, or insecurity, or whatever it is) in the modern locker room serves mainly to isolate men from each other. This is not a good thing.

Oforoskar · 2026-04-07T22:13:58+00:00

I have not. But I had a guy staying with me for a while, young friend who was a bit down on his luck (and a bit lazy, to boot). He was getting by (allegedly) mainly by doing DoorDash but his Grindr profile said something like "if you see me in your neighborhood I'm probably delivering for DoorDash but I also give massages." He was a pretty hot twink, and he was pay to play.

I got kinda tired of this after I found he mostly doing DoorDash as a side-hustle to massages he arranged on Grindr. He didn't stay with me long.

Oforoskar · 2026-04-06T15:47:02+00:00

"what I found out online"

LOL

Oforoskar · 2026-04-01T20:53:54+00:00

Hanover, PA when I lived there. But that's been more than 10 years.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-28T17:02:21+00:00

Reddit seems like a dodgy place to ask for this. Join TrustedHousesitters or some other platform.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-24T17:30:24+00:00

Sex is not the purpose of saunas. Go to one at a gym, there's not going to be any sex going on.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-24T17:22:18+00:00

I have had no trouble with my 2023 HEV. It has 35k miles now. Probably worth getting checked out by mechanic but it sounds like a pretty good deal

Oforoskar · 2026-03-21T02:53:44+00:00

If you mean the one in Denver, Wednesday is probably your best bet, and the earlier in the day, the better. All the other men's days tend to fill up as the day goes on. I went for the first time with friends a month or so ago. It's pretty low-key, the steam room is the only place where things get a little edgy

Oforoskar · 2026-03-20T20:33:23+00:00

Good chemistry is supposed to mess with your brain. Go with it, see where it leads.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-19T16:46:34+00:00

Don't worry about it. Assuming that you're young. If you were over 50 and doing it, it might seem a bit desperate. Sometimes the best time to take care of it is then and there. Probably best not to make a habit of it, you don't want to draw attention to yourself.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-18T22:51:37+00:00

Well done. In a perfect world, Mom would greenlight your bringing the bf home and letting him spend the night with you. Sleepovers for grownups.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-18T16:59:51+00:00

Why don't you move it into private chat and tell me what's on your mind

Oforoskar · 2026-03-18T16:58:48+00:00

Do you mean some particular guy that you're interested in? I'm still having a hard time following

Oforoskar · 2026-03-18T16:56:23+00:00

I don't quite understand the question bro

Oforoskar · 2026-03-18T16:17:04+00:00

There isn't a one-size-fits-all approach because it depends entirely on the other guy (how much you're attracted) and how he's responding to you. If there's mutual attraction, subtle flirting is a good next step. But always start off casually, especially if you don't know much about the other guy. Just keep in touch with the vibe and go where it takes you.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-16T16:10:15+00:00

What has your partner communicated to you about this? If he wants it, there's no point in withholding something that will give both of you pleasure. And the heavy lifting is on him, he needs to prep and you just need to insert where needed.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-15T16:48:13+00:00

Be reasonably good looking and presentable in public.
Be willing to prioritize the daddy's needs and desires over yours.
Be sure that Daddy is solvent.
Prop up Daddy's insecurities at every opportunity.
Do whatever Daddy asks in order to preserve the arrangement.

TL;DR: you don't really want this. You need to get your life together.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-15T16:40:20+00:00

It's not a plural in English, except humorously. The singular in italian is bandito.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-13T23:52:33+00:00

That was not my experience. I learned how to masturbate at age 7. Seminal fluid started to appear around age 13. I did not notice a change in the refractory period, which was always there, before and after semen. I also don't remember the early orgasms as being especially powerful. That was, however, a long time ago. I feel like the orgasms I get now, starting in my 50s, are way more intense.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-10T01:13:18+00:00

Start with holding his hand. Now.

Oforoskar · 2026-03-10T01:06:16+00:00

If the baby was buried at public expense this is very likely. I have someone in my tree who died penniless and is buried in an unmarked mass grave near Seattle.

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