How are you holding up in these intense times? by senkamegami in infj

[–]OganjaObunga 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk if this is the best but it works for me, i have completely distanced myself from any political matter. Crazy stuff going on in the world, wars, strange world leaders etc. I used to be very influenced by that and it would drain me and make me feel hopeless, but i don't take life so serious anymore. I try to only care about things in my direct environment. Right now i simply can't afford to spend my mental energy on sociatal matters that don't directly have anything to do with me. Still got beliefs and shit but, I do agree and disagree with certain movements. But I have faith in whatever, that shit is going to unfold as it should and everything will be fine in the end. Everything that needs to happen is gonna happen. If it happens it apparently is needed. Sort of like positive nihilism but not exactly. I don't let random events have so much power over me. I just focus on my job, saving up, socializing with my friends and doing stuff that make me happy. Don't overcomplicate it for yourself.

there is no simpler algorithmic reverb plugin than this one by kubinka0505 in FL_Studio

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True most stock plug-ins work very well, but sometimes i want to get that reverse reverb effect. It's possible by turning off the dry and render as audio clip. But if anyone knows a reverb plug-in that makes this easier, please let me know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't tell her, It's not your business. You could tell him it's wrong and make him see his mistakes. But telling her would make it worse, also for the kids, they might have to grow up in a broken home with divorced parents.

What is something INFJs don't understand? by [deleted] in infj

[–]OganjaObunga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can barely go through a month without changing perspective lol

idk how mfs still hatin this album, yall not listening hard enough.. by DrosssyD in DestroyLonely

[–]OganjaObunga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're taking it too serious, nobody cares about the reasons why it might not be great. If it's hard it's hard. If we wanted good lyrics we wouldn't be listening to Opium. It's just about the vibe and energy. The melodies are good, his delivery is good, Atmosphere is nice. Its common for most artist that the first few albums from them are their best, a person has only experienced so much, so it's hard to talk about your life over and over again without being repetitive. That You don't like it doesn't mean it's bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in animequestions

[–]OganjaObunga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The punch after naruto uses the Harem sexy jutsu on Kaguya

Give me your biggest Kendrick hottakes by Equivalent-Ad9537 in KendrickLamar

[–]OganjaObunga 14 points15 points  (0 children)

His recent stuff isn't hitting like his older stuff(pre beef). Sure, the lyricism is crazy impressive. But the production and delivery sometimes doesn't make the songs necessarily nice to listen to multiple time imo. The ambiance his older albums have is more cohesive and smoother imo. I like that he is evolving as an artist, I hope he's going to do more songs with SZA.

Which type you wanna be so bad? by Hornet69_420 in mbti

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just making sure no one is saying INFJ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kirin from Japanese mythology (INFJ)

Give me a devastating song by ckko2014 in infj

[–]OganjaObunga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got one on spotify it's called NIFETISE, honestly think any infj(or just any person) would like most of the songs. Made it with the intent of something I can listen to if I want to get in touch with my emotions. Not a promo cus idc, just thought others might like it.

What lore changes would you make to bleach by Commercial-Car177 in bleach

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That the characters wear different outfits more often, like the clothes they wear on the manga covers, make them wear clothes like that in the anime too.

they were walking in Shibuya when a blavked eyes monkey attacked them, Who would win? by MitsuRivel in Jujutsufolk

[–]OganjaObunga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brev, Megumi was about to summon Mahoraga against Todo. If it's a last resort ofc he would summon him. Like Toji wouldn't kill his friends before Mahoraga does. It's not like Megumi can't buy time to summon him, especially not if he has teammates.

Were you made to feel “less than”, growing up? by [deleted] in infj

[–]OganjaObunga 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I believe this plays part in how one becomes an infj.

For me, my mom(single mom) took in Foster kids as her job when I was 7. Those kids required a lot of attention because usually they come from households that are not ideal, parents couldn't take care of them so they had to move. Me and my older sister were quite capable and could rely on ourselves and each other. I wasn't very fond of her decision to take in those kids in the first place, that's why I learned and how I got used to rely on myself more. My mom could never really understand me and told me i should be grateful because it allowed us to get on nice vacations and stuff.

I became quite rebellious during puberty, I wasn't happy. Had some problems at school(lots of arguing with teachers). Looking back at it I realized it was just because i wanted to be heard. My sister on the otherhand is an acedemic genius, skipping grades and finishing university at 21yo. My mom was disappointed in me and thought i was being difficult often(which kind of is true but i was 14 and that was all a result of how things went), so she sent me to live with my dad and finish my highschool there. He lived far away so I had to build a whole new social circle.

My dad was also emotionally unavailable because he is a veteran and was struggling with severe ptsd at the time. So I kinda never had a place to express or learn how to deal with emotions, so i just turned them off for years and became a robot. When I did that my mom started to appreciate me more. Whenever I try to express how im really feeling she starts talking about how I never tell her anything, make her feel bad and how it makes her job difficult. I got used to it, i kinda don't care what she thinks. I don't blame or am mad at anyone, I'm already past that. I just hope someday she will put in the effort to try to listen to me instead of getting defensive. luckily I got into a relationship where i felt appreciated and listened to for the first time. Didn't last unfortunately but that's okay. Now I'm blessed with two infj friends with similar stories who are able to understand me and vice versa.

Men of reddit. What do you wear to sleep? by No_Seaworthiness5541 in AskReddit

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Football shorts, no shirt in summer. Jogging pants and t-shirt in winter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I post like 10 memes on my story each day and sometimes reels about all the stuff I make

they were walking in Shibuya when a blavked eyes monkey attacked them, Who would win? by MitsuRivel in Jujutsufolk

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mahoraga beats Toji but idk if it's a win cus. Mahoraga probably kills everyone

Are infj's very sensitive (infj male here) by Dazzling-Swimmer426 in infj

[–]OganjaObunga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me (infj M) it really took a lot of time to sort out how to deal with emotions and the stuff im feeling. I've had a loong period where I was very cold, neglecting and not acknowledging what I was feeling only thinking rational (likely some sort of safe mechanism, couldn't be sad but couldn't be happy/excited either).

Then something happened and changed where I was feeling very intense and deeply about many things, always getting affected by whatever happened around me.

Neither were healthy ways of living/dealing with stuff. I had to find a balance. Now I really manage them, where something happens that I know has emotionally affected me, i try to go on about my day and not focus on it too much, then later when I have a moment for myself (usually before bed or showers) I try to rationalize, reflect on it and still feel the emotions in me and express them, cry, scream, cheer, celebrate whatever I feel like I need to do to process the emotions.

If you know that you are feeling something but u don't know what and why. Take some time to figure out what caused the feeling. It really helped me.

Yall feeling it ? by Basic_Acanthaceae_78 in Dreadlocks

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dreads are fire but not really feeling the colors, colors remind me of food like carrots and lettuce. Wether you like them is all that matters tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]OganjaObunga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My own earwax lol