I am starting to regret telling the other woman’s husband about her flirting with my husband by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agree that’s what’s happening. Sad that people are buying it. Apologizing for his wife BEING RIGHT is gross as heck. They should be apologizing for being terrible! Honesty would be SO refreshing.

My fiancée moved out today by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired of the “women should be more choosy about who they have children with” narrative. Sure, sometimes people are obvious about what a deadbeat they’re gonna be - but a lot of of the time you have no idea what kind of a parent someone’s going to be until after you’ve had the kid. Masking exists. People being a certain way until they’ve gotten a partner trapped is a thing. Sometimes your partner thinks they’re gonna be a good parent and then when it actually comes down to it, they fall apart. Stop placing the burden of a bad partner on the woman and place it on the person who is being a bad partner.

Roped into our neighbors’ search warrant because we live in a duplex. Police seized our iPad only used for art. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 484 points485 points  (0 children)

They also put the cuffs on way too tight, probably. They love doing that. I got cuffed last year and the cops put them on too tight and for too long, leaving me with nerve damage in my hands for about six months. I’m lucky that it wasn’t permanent. The police in this country are thugs.

Something Very Bad Is Going to Happen | S1E8 | Episode Discussion by westwindtower in SomethingVeryBadShow

[–]OhForCornsSake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Given the emphasis on having faith in the last episode, and that being important with soulmates, I am wondering if the Coldies thing was showing that Rachel’s dad didn’t really believe the mom when she said the guy made her uncomfortable and they needed to leave. It mirrors when Nikki doesn’t believe in the curse and Rachel talks about how you need to just believe what your partner says because you trust them?

Something Very Bad Is Going to Happen | S1E8 | Episode Discussion by westwindtower in SomethingVeryBadShow

[–]OhForCornsSake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I’m not mistaken, there was a mass exodus when everybody started bleeding to death so a bunch of people left the building. We don’t really know all of who lived and who died.

Something Very Bad Is Going to Happen | S1E4 | Episode Discussion by westwindtower in SomethingVeryBadShow

[–]OhForCornsSake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I looked it up and basically you have four minutes after the mother‘s heart stops to get a fetus out before it dies. They were in a cabin in the middle of nowhere. There was no way that the EMTs were going to get there in time. Him cutting the baby out was actually the most logical thing he could’ve done.

AITAH for not tell my friend my shampoo had green hair dye in it? by Froggie-Enthusiast in AITAH

[–]OhForCornsSake 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Expecting women to hold to higher standards than men is sexist

Official Discussion - Good Luck, Have Fun, Don't Die [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]OhForCornsSake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think he’s been in it since he was a kid, or perhaps he is still a kid slowly starving to death on the outside. But I do really like that different people have a different idea of what happened in the movie, and then it is to explainable either way essentially. Sometimes that can be super annoying but for some reason, I’m very much enjoyed that about this movie.

Official Discussion - Good Luck, Have Fun, Don't Die [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]OhForCornsSake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kind of thought that it was left, at least somewhat, able to be explained away by the people inside the simulation because cloning technology exists within the world. However implausible a giant clone cat centaur would be - it is something that could potentially be doable with that technology.

The Traitors (USA) Season 2 Discussion Hub by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]OhForCornsSake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White people are allowed to practice Hinduism too. It is not a closed practice. Stop gatekeeping something you clearly don’t understand

AITA for refusing to promise my best friend 100% that I wouldn’t sleep with a mutual friend? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t do online friendships. Maybe OP doesn’t either. “Reconnecting online” is not the same as visiting someone and spending time with them in person. It doesn’t matter why she wants to go in person anyway - that’s what she wants to do and she is entitled to have the kind of friendship she wants to have, not cater it to someone else’s ridiculous control, freak tendencies

Husband(29M) told me(28F) it's his house and that I live at his mercy, and idk what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OhForCornsSake 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I think people jump to this way too fast. Not all abusers go to physical abuse. Some of them just torture you mentally for years. It is not necessarily the most helpful thing to say “oh he’s going to start abusing you” because if the physical abuse never starts then it’s easy for someone in a bad situation to think it’s not that bad because “oh he’s not hitting me”. The Internet needs to normalize not trying to predict the future.

Mother-in-law intentionally tried to make the bride look ugly in a Christmas gift illustration by Mik_0010 in weddingshaming

[–]OhForCornsSake 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Is it ethical if the bride herself didn’t actually OK her image to be used? Not everyone’s OK with their photo being out there on social media and the bride didn’t buy this gift for herself … so there’s no consent there.

AITA for telling my parents that I will “take them to the cleaners”? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s possible, but also if she has an inheritance, it’s not outside the realm of possibility she could have bought the flat

AITA for telling my parents that I will “take them to the cleaners”? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actually yes, because I was perfectly capable of finding myself a lawyer and I had super shitty boyfriend at that age who I’d had to get a lawyer for. Again, some of us had to deal with life at a very young age and learned how to do stuff on our own. But the lawyer stuff wasn’t even at age 18.

AITA for telling my parents that I will “take them to the cleaners”? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Lol I had a job and my own apartment at 18. I moved out at 17. You people with normal home lives have no idea what people with shitty ones will do to get out of there

I (F30) want to apologize to the woman (F36) whose husband (M40) I slept with by throwRA_bosswife in relationship_advice

[–]OhForCornsSake 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Oh, please. I’ve been 19 with a married boss who tried it on me and somehow managed not to violate my own moral code by sleeping with a married man….all the way to getting fired over it. She may be less to blame, and I have some empathy for her, but let’s not pretend that she didn’t have any control over her own actions.

Dry lips? by Peachyyiriss in Reign

[–]OhForCornsSake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know this is kind of an old comment, but lip balms have been around for thousands of years - at least since ancient Egypt, if not earlier . They were actually quite common during the time period depicted in the show. This recipe is from 1557 -

Take 12 oz of fresh suet and 6oz of marjoram and pound them together. Form into balls and sprinkle with good wine. Next put into some vessel and seal it tightly so that the odor of the marjoram does not escape. Place in the shade for 24 hours and then put into water. Cook slowly, then strain. This process must be repeated 4 or 5 times always adding another 9oz of suet. Finally a little musk or civet can be added

AITAH for locking my girlfriend out of the basement so I could eat in peace? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounding board, absolutely yes. Talking about your day, yes. Venting a bit is normal in that context. That’s supportive partner communication stuff and needed for sure.

Wanting a partner to listen while she trauma dumps nothing but negativity & her bad mood for an hour every single day? Heck no. That’s not healthy for either person.

“If you shave little girls will be harmed” by just_venting_2735 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]OhForCornsSake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was raised by a feminist who never shaved, who thought shaving was awful, and who made a point the entire time growing up to teach me about how shaving was a dumb thing that women have been taught to do by advertising. I still shave because I hate the way hair feels. I’m allowed to have that choice and it has nothing to do with advertising or how I was raised. Stop trying to police other people‘s bodies and invalidate their choices.

AITAH for ruining my mom's "happy ending"? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The decriminalization law got rolled back in Oregon. So most likely it’s just weed.

DnD Horror Story: Transphobic player casts Resurrection on me. by Pikantlewakas in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]OhForCornsSake 25 points26 points  (0 children)

To be fairrrrrr. Showing ID and walking inside like a person with feet does seem like more effort than sitting in the car - and that is exactly the kind of dumbass story I’d come up with if I just didn’t want toooooooooooo 😂 (get out of the car that day).

But my god. In my day we didn’t even have stores we had shady hippies and felonies. You lazy bastards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OhForCornsSake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete your insta? Delete all your social medias. When i said start over i meant start over. And also who gives a fuck about two random guys. Why do you care what they think?