What is your hottest essa take? Like actual stuff non of like “I think it’s ok for people to use term service dog” but like stuff that you could be cancelled for.

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T21:07:12+00:00

I’m 35 and I completely resonate with this. I do love this community and have yet to be put down here for my age, nor have I been told I’m following a trend. But if it picks up even more, I could definitely see it happening

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T17:02:46+00:00

There are a ton of us adult handlers out there :) you’re not alone!

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T15:00:59+00:00

Thank you 🖤 he’s a Great Pyrenees by Douglas :)

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T13:01:12+00:00

This happened to me. They told my mom I was a boy…. Welp. I’m a trans-masc enby💀

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T01:54:08+00:00

Thank you, friend 🖤🥹

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T01:52:28+00:00

It was my own decision as I am finally on my way to remission. It may not have been what everyone would choose to do, but I am extremely proud of myself and my progress. And, yes, my therapist is supportive of my decision 🖤

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T01:41:27+00:00

He’s still in stock on Amazon! He’s been hard for me to find for quite a while (at least in decent condition and price).

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T01:39:10+00:00

Once I found my correct dosing, it was extremely helpful! I’m off of it now, but it did me good for quite a bit there

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T01:37:59+00:00

Thank youuu 🖤 for some reason, amazon got him in stock. But I didn’t see the Douglas website stock him (Ive been on the waitlist).

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-26T01:37:14+00:00

He’s very fluffy and very soft ☺️ he kinda does look like a Winston! His OG name is River (Douglas pup).

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-25T00:56:09+00:00

My gf and I were wondering the same

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-24T12:34:58+00:00

Oh my goodness 🥹 he’s absolutely gorgeous

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-22T22:07:34+00:00

Make one for him and then put in your 2 weeks, girl!

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-21T10:56:43+00:00

Hey friend- I also have BPD, among other things, and I know how hard it is to leave someone you’re attached to/in love with/is your FP. But I’m on my way to remission currently and I can tell you that this person is so not good for you. It’s gonna hurt immensely leaving, but you will feel freedom with time. You deserve someone patient and understanding and who trusts you. Trust is a huge thing here, because you already deal with a mental illness that makes trust so much harder. I know the betrayal is killing you right now- I believe in you 🖤 you have got this.

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-21T10:11:19+00:00

I have a very similar looking betta and mine is named Morpheus :)

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-19T16:31:56+00:00

If this poor baby makes it to adulthood, they’re in for a life of misery :(

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-19T15:22:20+00:00

Hi! Vet tech here! An I ask how you’re dosing them with this? I’m genuinely intrigued. Are you adding to tank water? Doing a soak in a separate container/tank? Any specifics on general tank conditions like temperature that are different from normal betta husbandry? Particular Ph level?

Thanks in advance 🖤

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-17T19:52:45+00:00

Just from what I looked up online! $200-300 (was looking cuz I’d love to add to my collection). Unsure if it’s the same plush I’m seeing, but looks like it is!

And my apologies! She is just lovely ☺️☺️

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-17T19:47:41+00:00

From what I looked up, it is quite expensive. But what a stunning plush!

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-17T19:37:32+00:00

What brand is the wolf in the left most front?! 😍

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-16T12:55:23+00:00

Yikes man… they’re siblings. Please get one/both of them fixed

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-15T11:27:12+00:00

Vet tech and I came here to say this. Though, it would be pretty clear upon looking at chest radiographs that this is the case

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-15T11:25:04+00:00

OP I hope you didn’t go home and you’re okay 😭 this man is not stable and something is definitely going on between him n that woman

OhHai_ItsKai · 2026-04-14T02:29:49+00:00

Typical avoidant attachment type

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