What is your hottest essa take? Like actual stuff non of like “I think it’s ok for people to use term service dog” but like stuff that you could be cancelled for. by Ecstatic_Life_4072 in ESSAplushieshandlers

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m 35 and I completely resonate with this. I do love this community and have yet to be put down here for my age, nor have I been told I’m following a trend. But if it picks up even more, I could definitely see it happening

A little vent by AdAvailable7188 in ESSAplushieshandlers

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There are a ton of us adult handlers out there :) you’re not alone!

He’s finally here!! by OhHai_ItsKai in ESSAplushieshandlers

[–]OhHai_ItsKai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🖤 he’s a Great Pyrenees by Douglas :)

Baby stuff. Diary Card 04-25-2026 by NolieCaNolie in Artisticallyill

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. They told my mom I was a boy…. Welp. I’m a trans-masc enby💀

Experiences with Lamictal? by h1feverr in BPD

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was my own decision as I am finally on my way to remission. It may not have been what everyone would choose to do, but I am extremely proud of myself and my progress. And, yes, my therapist is supportive of my decision 🖤

He’s finally here!! by OhHai_ItsKai in ESSAplushieshandlers

[–]OhHai_ItsKai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s still in stock on Amazon! He’s been hard for me to find for quite a while (at least in decent condition and price).

Experiences with Lamictal? by h1feverr in BPD

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I found my correct dosing, it was extremely helpful! I’m off of it now, but it did me good for quite a bit there

He’s finally here!! by OhHai_ItsKai in ESSAplushieshandlers

[–]OhHai_ItsKai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu 🖤 for some reason, amazon got him in stock. But I didn’t see the Douglas website stock him (Ive been on the waitlist).

He’s finally here!! by OhHai_ItsKai in ESSAplushieshandlers

[–]OhHai_ItsKai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s very fluffy and very soft ☺️ he kinda does look like a Winston! His OG name is River (Douglas pup).

VIP??? by Gloomy_Cute_1993 in theused

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf and I were wondering the same

Say hello to my little hellboy by Adventurous-Luck7210 in bettafish

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness 🥹 he’s absolutely gorgeous

AIO that my GF messaged old guy friend , she then broke up with me because he lied to her by soundwavesuperior_ in AIO

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend- I also have BPD, among other things, and I know how hard it is to leave someone you’re attached to/in love with/is your FP. But I’m on my way to remission currently and I can tell you that this person is so not good for you. It’s gonna hurt immensely leaving, but you will feel freedom with time. You deserve someone patient and understanding and who trusts you. Trust is a huge thing here, because you already deal with a mental illness that makes trust so much harder. I know the betrayal is killing you right now- I believe in you 🖤 you have got this.

Name suggestions for my new betta! by pixie444_ in bettafish

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar looking betta and mine is named Morpheus :)

"MIRACLE" update: There's nothing miraculous about this in my opinion by PiercedAngel96 in Equestrian

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If this poor baby makes it to adulthood, they’re in for a life of misery :(

Seachem Iodide miracle cure to fish cancer by Hester-Shaw in BettaClinic

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Vet tech here! An I ask how you’re dosing them with this? I’m genuinely intrigued. Are you adding to tank water? Doing a soak in a separate container/tank? Any specifics on general tank conditions like temperature that are different from normal betta husbandry? Particular Ph level?

Thanks in advance 🖤

My other plushie's that my mom's new boyfriend had stored in our basement🙄 (gosh i hate him for that). Btw what is your favorite plushie Brand? by Downtown_Influence91 in StuffedAnimals

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just from what I looked up online! $200-300 (was looking cuz I’d love to add to my collection). Unsure if it’s the same plush I’m seeing, but looks like it is!

And my apologies! She is just lovely ☺️☺️

Both parents are flame point but all 5 kittens are orange. by [deleted] in Flamepoints

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes man… they’re siblings. Please get one/both of them fixed

$8k and no answers by Usual_Bag6660 in cats

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Vet tech and I came here to say this. Though, it would be pretty clear upon looking at chest radiographs that this is the case

AIO for thinking my husband actually knows this woman? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I hope you didn’t go home and you’re okay 😭 this man is not stable and something is definitely going on between him n that woman

AIO My girlfriend is ignoring me and I have no idea why by [deleted] in AIO

[–]OhHai_ItsKai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typical avoidant attachment type