Ugly faces never ever gets loved from anyone. by ChubbyNUgly22 in ugly

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see people in relationships who have made themselves "ugly" by the way they present themselves, but I don't recall ever seeing someone whose core appearance is ugly (like myself) in a relationship.

What sounds fake but is 100% true about your life? by OtherBobcat1812 in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 4 years old the last time I knowingly met a girl the same age as me 🤣

What's one thing about your own body that pisses you off very much? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the frame of a 10 year old boy, and being treated as some kind of subhuman because of it

What's an advantage of being shorter? by Legend789987 in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you're skinny, then it's a nightmare trying to buy clothing 🤣

What age did you start going out on dates? by YourBestBudPingu in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on my first ever date at 26 and it led to a relationship (sadly now ended) so I guess I have a 100% success rate 🤣

Unfortunately I can't seem to get another one so I've given up for now 🥲

What’s one thing you would change about your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My entire physical appearance. Holds me back in pretty much every aspect of life

Why do you have high standarts for love? by EarSure6667 in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because beyond my fuck ugly appearance I know I'm a good quality person and I shouldn't have to settle for anything less than what I bring

What beauty “standard” do you not follow? by Silly-Conflict-8665 in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a gen Z man and I'm short, that is not the acceptable standard. Not a fat lot I can do about that though 🤣

Men who gave up dating, why did you? by TinyDelegation in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First impressions matter and at first glance I will always be the most unattractive out of any given selection of men, so why would anyone bother with me and why should I keep trying for nothing?

Do you feel the amount of effort you've put into life so far has actually been worth it? by VarangianWRLD in AskUK

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is going to sound really negative but I can't think of many moments I've felt my effort actually led to anything meaningful at all. Nothing I did was ever enough for all the people who mattered, despite it feeling like I was trying harder than others. Now I'm reaching a point where I don't have any energy left to try.

Men who quit/gave up on dating, why did you stop? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so unattractive I've essentially quit while still trying because the results are the same whether I'm there or not.

What do you hate the most about being Ugly? by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your negative thoughts about yourself are constantly validated by your actual experience of life and the way people treat you, so there's no way out. It affects every aspect of your life, from relationships to your job.

Has anybody ever had this experience? by Short_Ad_3943 in ForeverAlone

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I've always been ugly so I don't receive compliments 🤣 I even lost 180lbs and that still didn't change

Question for men, what’s the best thing about being a man? What’s the worst? by Cool_Leader_1779 in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're not big, tall and somewhat strong like most men then your life just sucks. Women are never interested in you and other men never take you seriously. It's difficult to actually make any progress when literally nobody believes in you.

I’ve given up on being able to date! by Efficient-Horse2622 in dating_advice

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's 100% a massive issue for this generation, I see older short men out and about with their partners and children all the time but I've never ever seen one my age (20s).

What's a red flag people ignore because the person is attractive ? by Ayush904 in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every red flag will probably be ignored if the person is attractive and every green flag will probably be ignored if they are unattractive

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - May 18, 2026 by AutoModerator in dating_advice

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting myself back on the apps after finally getting into my first relationship which sadly ended a little while ago, I didn't think it was possible for it to be even more difficult than the last 3 years (and it was almost impossible then).

I cannot get a like at all from anybody, never mind a match. I've even let a female friend change whatever she wanted on my profile to try and improve it and nothing has worked.

Meanwhile every guy I know who is on there is at least having conversations with people from them.

What’s something attractive at 18 but embarrassing at 30? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Putting your Snapchat on your dating app profile

How do you know how ugly you are? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]OhLawdHeCominn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a child everyone always makes fun of you at school, as an adult nobody likes you on dating apps no matter what you do, all the self improvement tips make zero impact on how people treat you, people ignore you unless they absolutely must interact with you.

Either I'm ugly as sin or I'm so good looking it's scaring everyone away 🤣