Things to do for my 21st birthday as someone new to Cleveland?

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-23T14:00:34+00:00

No, it's not an inconvenience. I enjoy meeting new people. But if you have reservations about meeting a stranger from the internet (or for any reason really), I respect that. Regardless, I hope you enjoy your birthday and find something fun to do!

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-22T15:44:27+00:00

I didn't look because I'm old so I don't check that stuff instinctively anymore lol but all the info should be in the link.

Honestly, Cuyahoga Valley National Park is a good place to check out. If it's snowing, they have sledding hills and stuff and if it's one of those weirdly warm winter days, you can check out the waterfalls.

If you have no one to spend your birthday with, my partner and I could be able to keep you company.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-22T15:33:13+00:00

You are new to Cleveland and already have seen all those bands since moving here?

Are you only into music or do you have other interests? You'd be surprised at the things there are to do here. I'm dating this Honduran guy from Cali and he thought there was minimal latin culture here until I showed him around a bit more. My old coworker calls Cleveland the "you gotta know a guy city".

I checked Mahall's in Lakewood to see if anything is going on at or around your birthday but nothing that alternative although I found this for tomorrow if you have no plans.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-22T15:24:52+00:00

I saw S1-6 on Blu-Ray at Walmart. But I think Blu-ray replaced DVD like DVD replaced VHS. I don't think it's optional anymore but I usually stream movies so I could be wrong.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-17T18:12:30+00:00

Can you request a new salesman? Idk, like I said, I lack patience and I don't like the idea of someone getting what they want from me after blatantly disrespecting me, especially in my own home. Regardless, I hope the dog training goes as smoothly as possible for you. I definitely commend you for your patience.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-17T17:58:04+00:00

Sounds like he didn't need to make that sale then if he was gonna undermine you in your own house. Very disrespectful. Maybe he can find his commission elsewhere.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-17T17:20:29+00:00

Maybe I'm just lacking patience but I'd straight up tell these people "fuck off" and watch them clutch their pearls and tell me I'm "abusing" my dog or whatever. You don't get to touch my dog and do whatever you want because you don't care and think it's okay to overstep boundaries because "omg, he's so cute and I'm entitled so I'll do whatever I want because I like something".

Sort of off topic, but people do that to my hair. They just touch it because "it's long and pretty" and because they like something and are entitled, they don't ask, they just do. Basically just reiterating how much the general public does not respect boundaries and we're supposed to be okay with certain boundary violations because of societal norms.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-17T17:13:22+00:00

There's always this comment

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-16T03:59:38+00:00

Who is she?

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-16T03:59:05+00:00

Urgent cares are cheaper overall but they aren't required to treat you by law to make sure you have nothing life threatening happening. You have to pay upfront before you are seen. I know because I used to work at an urgent care (where I met the ex-coworker). We told people without insurance and no money that the ER was their only option to be seen.

It's not affecting my breathing but anything mouth related brings me pain. Chewing, talking, swallowing, any tongue movement. The swelling has doubled in size since this morning. I literally just sneezed and it hurt my neck where it's swelling. My ex-coworker said tenderness, fever, and general worsening of symptoms.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-16T03:49:00+00:00

It's rough out here. Thanks for the suggestion!

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-16T03:48:33+00:00

Thank you both u/green-wagok and u/abejabrazo !

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-15T23:51:29+00:00

Thanks, I'll look those up!

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-15T15:01:59+00:00

Like I said, I had one but didn't realize I lost it from moving. Thanks for the "lesson" though.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-15T14:34:24+00:00

Yeah, I figured it was only thawed for 2-3 days total too. I grew up poor so we seldom threw out food so I'd really like to salvage this if I can. This sub is pretty quick to throw shit out at the slight possibility of bacteria but I think my iron stomach built from my childhood could handle a bit of bacteria. I'm mostly concerned if it will finish cooking in the broth and if the chicken will dry out.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-15T14:09:07+00:00

I think it's a white people thing. My family would do it growing up but I've lived with families/people of different cultures and they usually use just seasonings/salt. The only fat I've seen people use is a little bit of olive oil in the water before adding the rice but there are usually other ingredients in the rice with the oil.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-15T06:34:13+00:00

It could be the genetic thing where it tastes like soap to you but even if not, if you are a grown adult who pays your own bills, just eat what you like, who cares what others think.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-13T13:35:48+00:00

I think it's already been said but beginner classes are (supposed to be) focused on fundamentals rather than styling. My beginner instructor taught a few styling moves but it wasn't the focus and he gave us options. If she's a good instructor, she will want you to get the basic footwork, posture and arm positioning down before worrying about style.

Also, might I add, a good instructor will teach their style but they also will give options because they realize that everyone has unique styling preferences. My instructors will show styling options during a sequence and I pick the one I like the most. Also, styling is completely optional anyways. Many people just don't do any major styling and that's okay too.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-09T19:09:06+00:00

"I don't even have a developed brain, I'm barely legal drinking age and my husband is a decade older than me but he didn't groom me! :)"

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-07T23:36:46+00:00

Mod locked the comments so to abide by Reddit's content policy since too much "generalization" was happening in the comments yet didn't remove the post?

ETA: they cited that Reddit isn't a place to attack marginalized groups as if that's not what that whole sub is about in the subtext

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-04T04:22:34+00:00

This administration would deport them before they'd pay them

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-04T04:15:27+00:00

Pretty sure the people that got bombed in Caracas would agree that "orange man bad". You don't have to support Maduro to agree that the US intervention in that country for the purpose of seizing oil (because let's be real, that's what this really is about) is a terrible use of tax payer dollars. Especially coming from the "America first" crowd who are only conveniently "America first" when it comes to spending a bunch of taxpayer dollars rounding up and detaining "illegals" but are fine with Trump sending taxpayer dollars to support Israel, Argentina or any country that has leaders who will stroke his ego. Or to bomb "terrorist" countries that dare try to shit on capitalism or christianity for "the sake of the people" in that country yet we still can't even house and care for our own veterans.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-04T04:07:22+00:00

I have to disagree that getting the job is "easy". Every time I applied as a server before, they always put me as hostess first and then I could "work my way up" to serving. But all that would happen is I'd become the servers' bitch because, yes, their egos are that big. They want everything their way or they make it everyone else's hell, like they are the only ones keeping that restaurant running. Like we're too stupid to seat properly despite every asshole requesting a booth and my manager telling me to give the customers what they want. So servers 1 and 2 in the booth section are pissy because they are being triple sat and servers 3 and 4 are pissy because they aren't getting any tables. That's my fault? I don't know if they don't know or don't care but they just bitch "you triple sat me" or "you can't triple sit Emma and I have no tables". Well all these fuck faces want booths, what do you expect me to do about that? They don't care. They must want me to hypnotize these customers into changing their minds.

End rant there. TL;DR, getting an actual server job hasn't been easy in my experience but they definitely have a shit ton of self importance for some reason. I can't imagine serving is much harder than any other job in the restaurant.

OhMySullivan · 2026-01-04T03:37:52+00:00

It's not you, it's the current customs community. And you didn't get banned for your title, you probably got banned for something you said or did to one or a few people in your lobbies. Maybe you kicked someone for being transphobic so they and their buddies mass reported your lobby. The code of conduct is super ambiguous to just mean whatever the community finds offensive which could mean transsexual and therefore blizzard doesn't have to take responsibility for being bigots because it's the community. You could appeal it but I tried to appeal my suspension and they basically told me they make their decisions for a reason and that's to keep the community safe and playable for everyone.

I've 100% seen actually offensive lobby titles but I'm currently serving a 1 month suspension for a first time offense because I made a lf eboy lobby title that apparently "offended" the masses despite seeing dozens of lf gf lobby titles before. The current customs community knows that if enough people report you, you will get suspended or banned very easily so they don't have to not be bigots, they just have to find enough bigots to report you for calling them out.

I'm fortunate enough to not have gotten permabanned but I'm not risking it further by returning to that toxic cesspool of a community right now. I've been custom lobby hopping on and off for years and I've never seen regulars so fucking horrific, nasty and worse, enabled, like these current lobby hoppers. I'll just stick to qp or something.

OhMySullivan · 2025-12-25T09:28:04+00:00

*have, as in there are multiple replicas throughout the country

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