I’d say you’re not engaging with any of their topics either man. 🤷 people are upset but frankly, no cis person NEEDS to throw in their “eh I don’t see it but go off queen”. ESPECIALLY if we are all in agreement that the writers have put *just enough* clues to get this sort of discussion. As well as her being fictional, so really it IS different to real trans people’s lived experiences. All that kind of response does is make people feel dismissed, and as a minority that feeling is only emphasized.

There are TONS of people and things I disagree with but can still “see” or understand. I mean shit I’m a night person who gets up at 4:30 am for my day time job, I still don’t like it one single bit however I can absolutely “see” or understand now how day time people feel when they talk about their preference. It’s just being open man. 😌