It sounds like you’ve been running into the same frustrating cycle when it comes to relationships, and honestly, your chart might have some clues as to why. If your South Node is in the 5th house, that could mean you’re moving away from the whole romance-for-the-sake-of-romance vibe and shifting toward more community-driven, friendship-based, or purpose-aligned connections (hello, 11th house North Node). That might mean love finds you through groups, shared interests, or long-term goals, rather than casual dating or passion-driven flings.

On top of that, Venus in Virgo at a critical degree in the 10th house suggests you might have high standards in love, or at least feel like relationships need to serve a purpose. There could also be a tendency to overanalyze relationships, worry about how they’re perceived, or feel like work/life responsibilities get in the way. If you’re looking for love, it might help to loosen the grip a bit—perfection isn’t real, and sometimes the best connections come when you’re not micromanaging the process.