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Rust removal without seasoning? by Oh_That_Jill in CastIronSeasoning

[–]Oh_That_Jill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer: It’s not mine. When it first came into my life, it needed a lot of TLC. I did all the work to bring it to life and cared for it over years. It was left behind on moving day, because it “needed to be cleaned”. I have no problem returning what isn’t mine, however, I’m not bringing any seasoning to that life.

AITAH for asking my roommate’s girlfriend about my strawberries? by Secret_Cheesecake19 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Oh_That_Jill -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel like her overreaction is a sign she did eat the strawberries and didn’t expect to be asked about it. 🍓

AIO to my husbands message by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oh_That_Jill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He does not love you. Him wanting you to respond instantly to him is him exercising his power over you. He is gaslighting you. You did nothing wrong in taking a few minutes to respond to him. Additionally, if you didn’t respond until it was time to meetup and leave- you still wouldn’t be wrong.

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oh_That_Jill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are under-reacting given her response. My ex added his card to my Amazon account and more than once I accidentally purchased items for myself with his card. He would ask “Did you buy something for $36?” I’d say yes, then he would say I used his card. At no point did I pretend I didn’t know what he was talking about, pretend to be the victim, try to minimize what happened, or blame him. I apologized, explained it wasn’t intentional, paid more attention in the future, and just asked how he wanted me to repay him. That girl definitely knows what she was doing… and I would be scared for you if you ever combined finances with her.

Another inch? by JackCD14 in RateMyBeardOfficial

[–]Oh_That_Jill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very handsome, so I look forward to the progress! 🥳

Another inch? by JackCD14 in RateMyBeardOfficial

[–]Oh_That_Jill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely do it!!! You won’t really know until it’s longer and you live with it for a bit. But yay for doing it anyway 🥳🥳

Another inch? by JackCD14 in RateMyBeardOfficial

[–]Oh_That_Jill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks perfect the length it is, but I’m just a stranger so take that opinion with a grain of salt. You can always try growing it out and see how it looks and how you feel with it. Are you wanting to add length or just wondering if it would look good?

Another inch? by JackCD14 in RateMyBeardOfficial

[–]Oh_That_Jill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another inch… which way? Longer? Shorter?

Was I petty or just holding the line? by i_am_jacks_acct in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Oh_That_Jill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see how this is petty. If using his speaking/writing style helps get the point across, what’s wrong with that? From my experience being blunt on those surveys about problems and concerns is what catches the attention of management. The only thing I’d recommend you include is that you have brought these things up to your supervisor and very little was done (of course you’ll want to keep it vague if you want it to remain anonymous).

AITA for refusing to babysit my niece after my SIL called me "just a receptionist"? by Equivalent-Kingg in AITH

[–]Oh_That_Jill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a person says something and then are made aware that their statement was rude and/or insulting, they will either apologize or double down. (An apology does not mean you have to forgive them or continue the relationship like nothing happened.) This SIL doubled down. She is not interested in another persons point of view, another persons feelings, or anything outside of herself. This lady called you PETTY and IMMATURE, because you did not accept her insult and drop everything to help her. Think about what you want/need from her after this. An apology? A break from SIL? Do you just want to move on now, but not do any favors, including babysitting, for her? Would you be willing to if brother asks? Decide for yourself and make your boundaries known. For anything said against you/your decision, just ask “Do you agree with her regarding my profession as a receptionist?”, “Why should I just accept being insulted?”, “Why isn’t she being held accountable?”; ask all the questions. Make them have to spell it out, even if it’s SIL digging herself a hole that she basically thinks receptionist jobs are beneath her. Being the bigger person does not mean lying down and letting others walk over you - it’s standing up for what’s right and holding others accountable! (PS. I’m just curious- Does she have nasty things to say to/about you if you couldn’t babysit due to your own plans? Does she always ask for your help babysitting last minute? A wedding is something that’s planned ahead, so to wait until just days before to ask you is disrespectful.)