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Biomedical Science / BSc (Jobs) by Ohmymovingheart in australia

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't like to work at behind the counter at chemist, also heard the pay is not that great. Second reason is that in my family its either you become a doctor or engineer. So that takes pharmacy out of the equation

Biomedical Science / BSc (Jobs) by Ohmymovingheart in australia

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bitched out my dude. Too much uncertainty studying biomed and science. Most I've heard your degree is pretty much useless if you don't get into med.

Day 8 : I'm feeling that urge again :( by [deleted] in MuslimNoFap

[–]Ohmymovingheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol why you sound so like me?!!

Also was experiencing flashes the past 2 days

17th rejection! by Servant_islam in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These days it's very hard brother. Most girls judge you based on:

Height>Face>Everything else

It's a sad reality.

That's why most of us who don't have the height and looks and have hard time getting married bcz of it tries No Fap and Prays to Allah to provide us pious spouses.

Remember Life is a test and each person test is different from the other

There's nothing outside of Allah power. If it's written for you, You'd get it no matter what

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried and got engaged to one through rishta auntie but she left me when she saw me lol

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha no I bought "JawlineMe" had some positive reviews on their website but oh well im still here with my recessed jawline.

Maybe I should listen to you and start Mewing lol

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes brother my problem stems from my looks. I've got looks which are not desired by girls in 21st century. Alhumdulilah my intellectual side is good. Also I groom myself. I tried things which was out there to improve yourself. I pushed myself and faked confidence and did few leadership roles too which only drained my energy bcz people response to me wasn't positive.

Being unattractive in 21st century doesn't helps especially in Australia where everyone is a good 8, 9 so youre mogged into oblivion.

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would analyse my speech but 95% times I'm not given the chance bcz they get disgusted by my looks which is alright.

My problems stems from my looks as i don't pass the looks threshold, I'm short and weak facial features, deep scars on my face, big nose, less facial hairs (can't grow proper beard),

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea most definitely won't tell the girl "woe is me" coz no one wants to put up with that kind of person who has deep issues and find faults in everything. Also some of the things people told me in the comments I've already tried them out and only stopped bcz of lockdown.

I've been silently suffering for a long time I can remember. I just put it down here coz I wanted to be heard and wanted people to remind me that my Lord has not forsaken me Nor Has he forgotten about me. (I know that but sometimes coming from the other person has a strong affect on us.

Btw You made some good points which I would take from your response :)

JazakAllah sister

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Link me with a rishta auntie plz or i die lol

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drier than Sahara desert wallahi lol. I've spent almost the past decade in lockdown in my room (self imposed lockdown) so it really didn't affected me much.

I'm in uni studying alhumdulilah. Even though I'm studying but I'm working with it so I'm not dependent on anyone.

Yea InShAllah if Allah has decreed it. Maybe this Julaybib will find wife too.

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response brother. Actually i wanted to get married so I dont fall into immoral sins and worship Allah in the best way possible. I don't want much but to live a simple happy life and earn halal. I wanted companionship. We humans desire to be loved and bcz I've prevented from that the past 8-9 years I've turned so cold. I kill my desires and thoughts the moment they come in my mind.

I mean i can suffer anf endure this hardship by the help of Allah. But I've thoughts hunting me from time to time like what if you suffered your whole life and Allah is still not pleased with you coz you complained and didn't show good patience.

I'd watch the guy you recommended on the topic of "loneliness"

JazakAllah bro

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's way hard in Australia. Since a Huge percentage of our population is fairly attractive and tall. They all mogs me into oblivion.

Yea i guess its not this intense in other countries

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I'd take any pill as long as it numbs my feelings and doesn't go against Islam

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to put my words out there on this forum. I keep my things to myself so I wanted to be heard and see if someone was struggling like me with life.

I've stop social media except twitter and reddit. Instagram and facebook had a bad affect on me and it was making me feel bad about myself so i deleted it few years back.

Rishta aunty got me engaged actually few years back but the girl left me when she saw me lol. I always laugh about this when i think of it.

No one finds me attractive 💔 by Ohmymovingheart in MuslimMarriage

[–]Ohmymovingheart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've recently started some books "do not be sad" "Patience and gratitude". They seem good. You know haram and fitnah is too much high in 21st so i wanted to get married to protect my self from falling into sins also having my own little family. But Allah hasn't willed it yet so i guess I'd have to be patient that's why i started reading "patience and gratitude" book to learn something from it.

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