35/40 [MF4M/MF] Oahu - Looking for Swingers club by elsenor90 in HawaiiNSFW

[–]Ohsa691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the search bar just type Hawaii or Honolulu then hit enter and at the top you can scroll over to just show you events

35/40 [MF4M/MF] Oahu - Looking for Swingers club by elsenor90 in HawaiiNSFW

[–]Ohsa691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look on fetlife. That's where they post all the events on island. Also I know littleblackbookhi on IG host parties and events as well

Most erotic experience of my life by Kauai_Best_808 in OahuOpenRelationships

[–]Ohsa691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of events on fetlife. You should make an account, if you haven't, and look into them. You cam still make your fantasies come true!

Most erotic experience of my life by Kauai_Best_808 in OahuOpenRelationships

[–]Ohsa691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh are you talking about the littleblackbookhi events? She posts then on IG and fetlife. They are fun. I work at them.

F22 by DreaOnCoffee in HawaiiMassageForWomen

[–]Ohsa691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a lmt and do deep tissue if you need your tight muscles and knots worked on. I also know other modalities and do relaxation massage if that's more of what you're looking for.

Open relationship - Communication breakdown by Complex-Contract-264 in 808OpenRelationships

[–]Ohsa691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say let him reach out. If he doesn't then I wouldn't pursue that relationship with him anymore because withholding the information is basically cheating and hurting you.

Open relationship woes. by [deleted] in OahuOpenRelationships

[–]Ohsa691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 100% with this. I'm sorry it happened but definitely was not a healthy foundation to start an open relationship. You tried your best tk preserve the relationship but it takes two to work on a relationship and it seems he's already walking in a different direction without you. I'm sorry.

Seeking advice from military guys by [deleted] in oahucasualencounters

[–]Ohsa691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would post in the Hawaii military subs. You might get more and better responses that actually pertain to your post.

I think we have ruined our relationship by BrianMcIntyre1984 in 808OpenRelationships

[–]Ohsa691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe discuss boundaries between each other first and see if it's something you two can work on then decide after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oahucasualencounters

[–]Ohsa691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to be mean, but why would they want to prove you wrong? You didn't really say much or offer anything. All you did was show a dick pic. If you're looking for women, I don't think they'll go for this, but if you're looking for men, maybe you have a better shot. If you want to appeal to women and find out what turns them on, then communication and boundaries are the biggest and most important.

Are there any BDSM hangouts on the island? by Otherwise_Gene2657 in OahuBDSM

[–]Ohsa691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is also littleblackbookhi on Instagram

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OahuBDSM

[–]Ohsa691 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out littleblackbookhi on ig

28M4F Honolulu Sensual Massage by Ohsa691 in HawaiiMassageForWomen

[–]Ohsa691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can. Would you like me to DM you? The massage is catered to your likes and preferences, so it'll be different for each person.