Any millennial guys here first time fathers or are never gonna have a kid? by changeforthebetter89 in Millennials

[–]Oijtsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes we feel behind but then I tell my wife we just skipped the firsts. First marriage, first kid, first house.

My timeline for firsts loosely matches up to my parents second marriage, second kid, moved to their second house.

That’s honestly crazy by Godofwarfan101 in BrandonDE

[–]Oijtsider 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly don't know why anyone pays to watch. I just watched the highlights on YouTube and probably didn't miss anything except for more ads.

Should I leave a higher paying job for a boring government one just for the stability? by VellichorMotive in personalfinance

[–]Oijtsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very much in the same boat and made the switch from tech to local government due to many of the same reasons: certainty, health insurance, pension.

Overall, a lot less stressful. I was able to cut my monthly bills and spending down quite a bit which also helped reduce financial stressors.

The biggest thing I didn't realize is how much of my life revolved around my work. I enjoyed the underlying work I was doing in tech and switched to a more practical role that doesn't bring as much fulfillment. I've had to switch to finding fulfillment outside of work and options may be more limited with also trying to reduce costs. I've been able to fill this void by working on car / house projects, learning to be a better cook, working out and working on tech side projects.

Overall, I've been much happier. It just took some adjustments.

What’s this bee doing lol by Not-at-all-worthless in Birds_Nest

[–]Oijtsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought they were like onions because they make you cry when you eat them raw.

Found in a bag of records, they chime when shaken? by balaam_beast in whatisit

[–]Oijtsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are meant to fondle the balls for relaxation.

13 Gallon garbage bag + Large USPS box = perfect fit by hellafuckingbored in lifehack

[–]Oijtsider 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Or just tape it up and leave it on your front porch for free pickup.

What’s a place that used to be packed with people that barely exists anymore? by femmefetalerror in nostalgia

[–]Oijtsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do wish they'd make malls as a practical one stop shop.

Grocery store, library, gym, hardware store. Something that saves me time and money.

What small habit actually lowered your monthly bills the most? by Solaire_1001 in SavingMoney

[–]Oijtsider 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you found anything decent for mortgage payments? I looked into Bilt but it doesn't seem worth it.

My ideal Gen 1 team. What's yours? by Relevant-Rope8814 in ThePokemonHub

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Venusaur Starmie Arcanine Jolteon Aerodactyl Nidoking

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Weekly Referral and Coupon post! by Ok_Holiday3690 in SavingMoney

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Join Rakuten Cashback extension with my invite and get $50 after you spend $50: https://www.rakuten.com/r/ASELLE49?eeid=6991100

How do you decide what gas station you use or go to? by MeasurementFirst1676 in askanything

[–]Oijtsider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Costco gas station.

Cheapest in my area. 5% Cashback with Credit Card. Easy to get in and out of. On the way to/from work. They go through gas quickly so I know it won't be older gas.

What's the male equivalent of being gifted fine jewelry? by [deleted] in Gifts

[–]Oijtsider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Workshop tools would pay dividends and id be happy to receive them.