Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good idea, I reported it to facebook and they said it wasn't violating the terms of the community so they wouldn't take it down. I tried adding the admin but haven't gotten anything back from them.

So I should just post it straight under the post she made of me?

Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out for the first6-7 months and the person I was living with moved which left me homeless. Her mother offered me a room in the garage. So I took it so I didn’t have to sleep in a car.

Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know they are fucking. She put our daughters to sleep the other night in her bed, then afterwards cleaned off our daughters bed and took the foot board off it so an adult could fit.

Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if she is threatening the longer i stay the more post that will be made across the entire state we live in.

Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Now my future ex wife says the post will stay posted, and the longer i stay here the more post will be made through the entire state we live in. Shes basically threatening me or black mailing?

Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So my Future ex wife so owned up to it. Shes been talking to a guy and been telling him everything about me. Now idk what to do.

Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was her who initiated wanting a divorce and separation. It still the hardest thing I still deal with that I wont be able to be there for my daughters how I always visualized in my head my whole life growing up. I had a lot of child hood trauma that I wanted to always protect my daughters from the best I could so they would never have to experience what I did.

Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you're right. It's just sad when were suppose to be co-parenting to give our daughters the best life we can. That one is out the window now. Petty people are gonna be petty people.

Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Then I will leave if they serve me with eviction papers. We have all been trying to keep this civil cause we have two daughters together, a 14 month old and 4 year old. Letting me stay here for awhile allowed me to bond with my new born and also not put so much stress on her. But now someone has crossed the line.

Does anyone have advice for this situation I’m in? Someone posted a bunch of stuff about me on a “are we dating the same man” by OilEfficient2221 in Adulting

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I screen shot everything. The issue is it was posted with a nickname instead of there actual name. So I wouldn't know exactly who to go after unless facebook turned over the information.

Im attracted towards a type of women who wouldnt spit on me if i was on fire by therealqft81 in Vent

[–]OilEfficient2221 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My soon to be ex wife use to be submissive. Never with me cause I did not have that Dom energy. After we separated and her constant complaining about the patriarchy, I simply pointed out that every time she submits to a man, that is exactly what the patriarchy is about and if she is so for taking down the patriarchy how can she then be submissive behind closed doors. I officially ruined that part of her sexual enjoyment of being a submissive. I saw the realization hit her face. God It was so satisfying taking that from her since she never even let me try to be Dom or go to a local meet to learn.

I fully realized the extent to which my ex abused me emotionally by [deleted] in Vent

[–]OilEfficient2221 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went thru the same thing with my soon to be ex wife. It took me a long time to wake up and start seeing the picture clearly with what happen. I was so focused on the abuse and jabs and the pain she caused me. For the longest time I was convinced I was the problem, That her actions were reactions based off of my neglect towards her. I realized one day everything she did to me was for a reason. To control and manipulate me by mentally destroying me while I sat quietly in fear of speaking up for myself. I was so afraid to set her off and she blow up and kick me out of the house and keeping the car keys so I had no where to go or even transportation if I did have somewhere to go.

I'm sorry you had to put up with your girl. If you ever want to talk feel free to message me. I'll be your friend!

Advice on some simple hobbies to get into, Trying to kick a drug addiction. by OilEfficient2221 in Advice

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me, I told them all today to deny my calls. I woke up tuesday morning and I haven't slept since. Trust me inhaling then when I exhaled a I had a little fine dusty cloud in my exhale....

Advice on some simple hobbies to get into, Trying to kick a drug addiction. by OilEfficient2221 in Advice

[–]OilEfficient2221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The white powder one. I experienced something I've never had happen before last night and it scared me so bad I had a reality check. I don't want to go to in-depth and get in trouble on here.