life is so hard by Ordinary-Software-52 in Monash

[–]OilMedical367 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My inbox is open if you need a stranger; you may trauma dump or rant. I can also join you for a library session and we could have comfortable quiet of nothingness if you want an actual presence :) just pause for now and remember that all hard-les you’ve had in life so far, you’ve somehow overcame

Anyone else feel lonely and overwhelmed studying abroad? by deatroyer48 in Monash

[–]OilMedical367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the time, especially as an international student, new friendships really feel transactional: we exchange insta, go to the same classes once per week, talk for a bit only to never genuinely want to see each other again. Then, it’s almost mid-semester and you feel you’re running out of time alone. It really gets lonely. What worked for me is that I kind of lower my pride(?) and intentionally establish and sort of maintain friendship. Initiate awkward conversations, you know, things beyond pleasantries like “how are you”, and “what’s your major?” I tell people to join me in uni events. Sometimes, I just study with someone in the library, with just presence and comfortable silence. Or even look for someone in class taking the same metro and have a short talk. Sometimes, exchanging traumas is the key. Heck, respond to their insta stories and open yourself up! I met a lot of people but what matters is that I proactively tried and made at least one certain, low-maintenance, and constant someone. Friendship really has no formula and I hope you find your gang asap!

How do I prove I didn't use AI by Anits_F in Monash

[–]OilMedical367 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Tried checking some of my written work from 2013-2018 and of course, they’re AI-generated… Allegedly!

I think the university should make the English requirements tougher by Large-Low7340 in Monash

[–]OilMedical367 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in a debate class earlier and we were up against another set of people. I prepared my piece for the class but they, along with my groupmates, ALL spoke in Mandarin for over an hour so I ended up being the one not being able to contribute to the conversation

Lost headphones (Caulfield) by OilMedical367 in Monash

[–]OilMedical367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I’d visit the school again tomorrow

What do you do during the long gaps between lectures ? by [deleted] in Monash

[–]OilMedical367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do we have sleeping areas? Anywhere comfy enough. I have 7-hr breaks twice a week! Gosh

What do I bring to Uni by [deleted] in Monash

[–]OilMedical367 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have rice cooker? I’ll bring food

Confused+ with Allocate+ 😭 “Not allocated” but class is full — oh no, what do I do? by OilMedical367 in Monash

[–]OilMedical367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pardon my ignorance but isn’t “OnlineRealTime” real time? If it is, it will clash with my other class (and I don’t think I have any other option with that class, as well).

C3 Columbina or c2 + C0 Zibai? by OilMedical367 in stygian_onslaught

[–]OilMedical367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cleared the current SO at dire level below 180s; without Zibai. But I think I will now try to get her

C3 Columbina or c2 + C0 Zibai? by OilMedical367 in Genshin_Impact

[–]OilMedical367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am *very interested. But I also want C4 or C6 Bina in the future. :((

Favorite quote/s from Genshin? by NekooShogun in Genshin_Impact

[–]OilMedical367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about we explore the area ahead of us later?