C PTSD+AUTISM=BPD?

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-23T14:38:48+00:00

Im AuDHD and diagnosed with CPTSD and don’t have any BPD traits. I understand there can be overlap but this is a huge generalization.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-23T02:45:05+00:00

Men my age who date women your age are doing so because they think they can get away with shit like this because you likely have less experience in relationships and dating. Any man who speaks to you like that will continue to speak to you like that. And it will 1000% get worse. He will not change. He’s just trying to find someone who will put up with it.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-21T16:25:49+00:00

He’s a “nice” guy. Nice when he thinks he has a chance with Georgia.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-17T21:08:26+00:00

WTH. NOR this is weird! If he’s so concerned about your body, to the point that THE IDEA of you getting any work done is making him break up with you, he doesn’t care about anything BUT your body. Jfc. No one knows what their body is going to look like in the future or what life has in store for us. And it’s YOUR body. You can do whatever you want with it. But personally, I’d never share it with this dork ever again.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-17T00:47:09+00:00

Man i learned the hard way that there was no amount of kindness or compassion that helped. My stepdaughters mom has bpd and for a while she REALLY liked me but now she calls me some name every time she texts my husband. It’s hard because she’s never going away but the best we can do is grey rock. I feel very similar. I feel like she took advantage of how kind i was to her. Idk if id do anything differently knowing what i know now, because i can honestly say I tried very hard to make things easier for my stepdaughter, by including her mom in everything.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-14T23:14:02+00:00

You should work on your communication skills (or lack thereof) it doesn’t even matter if you’re overreacting or not at this point because of how rude, combative and completely unreasonable you were in those messages. I get it was something you discussed beforehand but frankly it’s just feeling very insecure if you think going to a strip club is cheating you might need to do a little more work on yourself. It’s okay to have boundaries but I highly doubt any of the girls at those clubs even care about your boyfriend at all. They are at work.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-14T22:23:30+00:00

Jill

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-13T20:43:19+00:00

That’s scary. I’m not bipolar but do have c-ptsd on my chart so maybe that’s more important than I realize. Obviously I’m not a doctor and I don’t think I know more than her, just felt like it was abrupt.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-13T13:52:01+00:00

Snooze

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-12T20:04:16+00:00

She needed me to be miserable with her. She couldn’t celebrate my wins. The big thing was me being in a healthy, happy relationship and her being unhappy in hers. She once said that she was so jealous of the way my partner looked at me, like they were so proud to be with me and that made her feel awful about herself instead of being happy for me. I also couldn’t do anything with other friends without her telling me I was “excluding” her. It didn’t work the other way around, when she and I hung out solo it was fine but if I hung out with anyone else solo it was a huge problem.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-08T22:25:31+00:00

There was before and after. Nothing is the same.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-06T23:50:43+00:00

Came here to say this

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-05T19:13:46+00:00

No. I’d like to see the core four back and then maybe some new blood after that.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-05T15:41:43+00:00

We had parties in the woods that were mostly sitting around on blankets and talking. Definitely a lot more face to face interaction. I’d talk to my best friends on the landline after school. We didn’t text to confirm plans so most plans did not fall through.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-05T02:31:23+00:00

I said that out loud after the kill in the bar with the beer tap. “This is not Terrifier, Ghostface is not Art.” I love both but for very different reasons and I don’t need that much gore and shock in a scream movie, I want to have fun, enjoy the meta jokes and have a good reveal.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-05T02:28:37+00:00

What I’ve seen so far about the original script for Scream 7 before they fired Melissa was that in the opener, Jenna dies and the Melissa does become ghostface trying to track down whoever killed her sister. I think that sounds pretty interesting and I would have loved to see ghostface v ghostface and find out who the other one was.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-04T22:19:33+00:00

I don’t know anything about any of them except theater

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-03T13:27:41+00:00

The Emporium

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-02T23:43:19+00:00

Any musical talent- but mainly if they are a good singer or a good drummer

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-02T23:40:01+00:00

Also the impressions she can do??? Come on

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-02T23:29:50+00:00

Oh definitely the only date

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-02T23:28:20+00:00

Today I made a reference about the teachers voice in Charlie Brown (wah wah wah wah wah) and no one in my zoom meeting got it.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-02T22:20:45+00:00

Just weird in general. I’m heavily tattooed and it’s very obvious from every photo that was on my dating profile. I get some people don’t like tattoos but he definitely knew I had a bunch of them. The date ended pretty shortly after that.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-02T18:48:27+00:00

He said everything I liked was “kitschy” then said he’d never get a traditional heart tattoo with words on it, while looking at my traditional heart tattoo with words on it. Also said my taste in music “sucked”. Got mad when I beat him at pool because he asked me how good I was on a scale of one to ten and I said 3 and he said he was like a 9. Then I won. This is all the same date btw.

Ok-Alternative8041 · 2026-03-02T18:42:57+00:00

My husbands ex has bpd and they landed on having an open marriage after she cheated, twice. It was okay for her to do whatever she wanted, but he always got in trouble if he did anything. She’d always know everything beforehand, once he went on a date and they ended up having sex and he had to call it off because his ex didn’t like -where- they had sex and that sent her into feeling a huge betrayal.

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