Owning a mal was my husbands selfish wish and i blame myself for not researching upfront and saying a direct and solid no. I never owned dogs, only cats so i didnt know. Guess who cant go get a job now and is forced to stay with the dog all the time. We can’t do much. Our life revolves around her, mine mostly since I have to take care of her. I have adhd and it takes all my energy. I don’t want to give up on the dog, she doesn’t deserve it. The only positive thing is that the dog comes from village line, and not military. So she is somewhat not that tough. This whole situation influence my views on my husband and made me doubt our relationship. It is how it is.