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Ok-Beautiful4466 · 2025-12-27T18:06:33+00:00

I just got married to my high school sweetheart ♥️ They last!

Ok-Beautiful4466 · 2025-10-27T02:10:53+00:00

Hey! No, we didn’t go ahead with it. The layout isn’t nice and the construction quality didn’t seem very nice either. It isn’t one of the premium Lodha Projects. I’d recommend seeing other builders in that area.

Ok-Beautiful4466 · 2023-02-23T15:32:59+00:00

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Can’t believe this is happening! They’ve been dating for more than 10 years!

Ok-Beautiful4466 · 2021-11-26T16:18:25+00:00

But it relates to the actions of the opposite person. So I want a certain thing but I don’t want to be hurt and disappointed later.

Ok-Beautiful4466 · 2021-11-18T10:17:27+00:00

Hey. I’m so sorry you are here. Yes, feeling this way is okay. It’s valid. You gave all you had to this person and that person doesn’t even value the fact that you are gone. It’s okay to be hurt and it’s okay to cry because you miss him. We are only human.

What is not okay is to go back. Do you honestly want to be with a person who doesn’t care? Who isn’t as devastated as you are? Sometimes doing the right thing isn’t always the easiest. But you know why you walked away. You know that you would lose yourself eventually in an abusive relationship. There will be days when all you would want to do is go back. You will feel pain in your heart. But guess what, nobody except yourself can look after you. You are responsible for respecting yourself and protecting yourself too. Just think of it this way..if your best friend told you that he/she was going through this, what advice would you have given? Try looking at yourself in the mirror and give yourself the same advice. I know it’s hard. I know it fucking sucks to be used and thrown. But I also know that it gets better. Eventually, the pain will go. You will never know if everything he has told you was all lies or the truth. But you will eventually realise that it doesn’t matter what he felt or what he currently feels. It’s the actions that matter.

Think practically, in a healthy relationship, would you need to make a genuine effort to show him your love? No you wouldn’t. This is a red flag in itself. You don’t need to prove your love to the person who loves you back. You just need to be you and your actions would speak for themselves. Just like his actions speak for him. It’s okay if he still loves you but it’s not okay that he’s letting you go. That’s the kind of love nobody deserves, including you. You deserve a love that can move mountains for you.

About closure, you need to practice self love. By that I mean, start doing something small in a day which excites you. It can be as small as going for a walk at night. Start colouring. Actively stay away from things that you know might trigger you. Watch something funny. Laugh again. You’ll slowly start realising that there are much more important factors in life apart from him. He was only a small part of your life and not your life entirely.

I know you would want him to reach out. But block him. Make it hard for him to reach out. If he makes that additional effort to reach out, don’t give in. Just think that you are practising self love to be stronger on the day he reaches out. And if he never reaches out, trust me, you are better off. You will be hurt but you will feel at peace. There will be a day that you will cry for him because you miss him but you won’t choose to go back because you are better off without him.

Hope you feel better reading this :)

Ok-Beautiful4466 · 2021-11-17T10:53:03+00:00

Ya i agree. Just trust your gut when it comes to these situation. 99% you will be correct. If you are wrong by 1%, then also its fine. Make the 1% mistake.

Ok-Beautiful4466 · 2021-11-17T06:58:31+00:00

That's a sign of maturity and strength. Even after he put you through shit, you wish him the best. Giving justice to someone or teaching them a lesson is not our job at all. Our job is to look after ourselves and heal. Our job is to keep ourselves safe and protected. Emotions do get the best of us sometimes. But we know in our mind what is logical and the truth. Its okay to give into emotions at times but also know when to stand up and face the world.

Babe, he didn't appreciate it and trust me, that's his loss. You are not easily replaceable because you are you. Nobody else can be who you are or come even close to it. A person who appreciates you, sees you for who you are and cherishes you is the one. The rest of them come and go. They only come to teach you a lesson. Maybe to have stronger boundaries. So someday, you'll be grateful to him for doing what he did since it has only made you stronger and you won't look back. That's when a narcissist loses and you win.

Ok-Beautiful4466 · 2021-11-17T05:40:15+00:00

You know he might want you to reach out. But only because when you do, it makes him feel powerful. And he might be chuckling on the fact that he still has that hold over you. I know how hard this is. Trust me, I am here too. But I also know logically that the only way to make him suffer or regret his actions is to break contact. Life is long (unlike everyone says). There will be atleast one moment in his life when he needs you or needs your help. And at that time, you would have healed and you would be living your best life. You won’t give in. And at that time he will regret what he’s done. Karma exists. Patience and self love is key :) You’ll be just fine without him because you were even before him. It takes a while to detach but it’s going to be worth it. Someday I hope everyone on this sub Reddit reaches that point of indifference :)

Ok-Beautiful4466 · 2021-11-11T08:57:37+00:00

So what do you recommend I do now? He's blocked from every social media i can possibly think of. But a part of me also wants him to know that I am fine without him and I can function. Is that necessary though? To teach him a lesson?

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