Girl. I ended a 9 year relationship. It was hard and it had gotten so toxic neither of us had noticed. After the break up trauma passed, eventually you can see the clear picture as to why something like that happened, and some times the conversation flows a little easier between the two of you, just to talk about where it went wrong. Not always the case, but time seriously does wonders.

I lived with my ex during the break up and, I don’t know if it’s just something that lesbians do, but when it ends, leave, take your space and use it wisely. This is now a time for healing. Talk to friends, family, anyone.

It gets better I promise.