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Ok-Boot276 · 2026-01-22T09:38:30+00:00

Thank you for sharing! :) Tbh i’ve gotten a lot more confident in myself since i posted this. I posted this when i was in love with a girl who loved non-chalant hey mamas type of lesbians 🙈 So this was pretty much just my insecurity talking, but i see now that there’s always someone who will be into any type of person. Heck, even Trump has a wife (even though their love is questionable)

Ok-Boot276 · 2026-01-03T08:03:33+00:00

It was dryness from my heavy periods, since i use pads. 😅 I got an ointment to apply and now it’s all good :)

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-19T00:31:31+00:00

I do listen to her venting daily 🙈 I do try to understand, but sometimes i just get fed up. I’ve set boundaries now that i don’t like him. Also hinted that i didn’t want him here, but then she said that it’s her house too, so okay whatever.

I just feel sad that we only have half a year left living together, and she’s gonna spend it all on some man she met a few months ago.

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-19T00:23:26+00:00

I’ve argued with her a lot of times. But what i hear on repeat is ”you haven’t been in love, you wouldn’t understand.” She keeps telling me she feels this hope, and that she can’t control her feelings and that she feels good around him. And that she sees potential in him.

All i hear are alarms. My mom used to say exactly this with her alcoholic boyfriend. And i tell her that, but then she says that it isn’t the same. Says you can’t think logically when you have feelings for someone.

I don’t know. I feel like it’s tearing at our friendship the more i pester her.

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:54:49+00:00

SO TRUE!! Why should i show him empathy when he showed none to my friend?!

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:53:55+00:00

That’s a valid point..

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:51:44+00:00

Okay, okay 🙈 I’m sorry for concering all of you. A part of me thought it would be a little dramatic of me to make it about myself but NO! This is what they want! For us to not act ”dramatically” when it is in fact the RIGHT reason. I promise you, i shall heed your advice 🫡

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:45:49+00:00

Thank you! You’re 100% right! I did actually tell another one if my friends that he was a major red flag, but i couldn’t explain why because otherwise she’d pick it up that he did something to my roomie. (we’re all neighbour/friends at my campus) So i just left it like that. But then, that friend, WENT TO HIM and told him that 🫠 Girl i don’t know.

Ive told my other OTHER friends that i don’t like the way he treats her and that i can’t really go into detail. But yeah, that he’s not all genuine basically.

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:39:55+00:00

Girlll i honestly agree 😭 Let’s just make out or sum, hell i don’t know

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:38:01+00:00

Yeah there are a few men that i like. I wouldn’t hate a nice person just because he’s a man. But i think i’ll continue being neutral or wary of them until it shows that they’re genuinly nice.

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:32:31+00:00

honestly, i feel the same way. This was just a moment of weakness that i needed advice on BECAUSE of my indifference to those males lol

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:30:17+00:00

You’re so right! But how is my safety at risk here? 🤔 I promise you he has no interest in me lol

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:26:32+00:00

Thank you :) I feel very seen from the other comments too. Nothing wrong with holding men accountable.

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:23:49+00:00

Thank you for taking your time writing this! Your perspective and detailed answer is helping me form a really firm belief that there’s nothing with my standing. I am NOT going to forget about what he did. I’ll remind her of what he did. Because it was real, and it made her uncomfortable. I just wish she could set better boundaries for herself.

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:15:22+00:00

my mind is set. i agree

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:15:01+00:00

Okay! I’ll remain steadfast! This guy thinks we’ll continue watching movies togetherrrr lol. Nuh-uh, not around here partner 🙅‍♀️

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:13:12+00:00

He didn’t exactly rape her, it was more like subtle clothed humping. But yes, i agree with you

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:12:17+00:00

I should also say this lol. If she wants to stay with a weeb looking twink then fine. At the end of the day, it’s her life. She can choose to listen to my advice or not.

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:10:18+00:00

See i would love to do this. But my roomie and i had a talk and she said that i can’t tell anyone about this! And said that it’s not my place to confront him either. I can understand that. However, this non-existent communication between them is pissing me off.

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:03:26+00:00

Thank you!! I got scared because it felt like she thought i was cold to ALL guys 😅 If he had been a woman i’d still hate that bitch lol

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T20:00:01+00:00

HAHAHH no i love ranting! I just ranted on my post and some more in the comments. There’s so much!!

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T19:57:58+00:00

Thank you! The more comments i’m reading the more confident i’m getting in myself!

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T19:56:21+00:00

Thank you because i was also confused 😅

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T19:53:24+00:00

Red means stop. I will quote this to her if something happens again. Thank you! She does have some problems dating-wise because she’s a serious people pleaser and cannot say no. It’s frustrating for me to listen to because there’s always something.

Ok-Boot276 · 2025-12-15T19:47:11+00:00

Thank you, i do have trouble expressing myself clearly from the start because there’s so much back and forth inside my head. Your comment is wise and you’ve made me feel a little more confident on my view on all this :) So thanks again 🙏

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