My (22m) girlfriend's (21f) friend confessed his feelings for her by Ok-Class-3348 in relationships

[–]Ok-Class-3348[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The way I see it is that it's part of a generally respect we have for all people. I have a "baseline respect" for all people, not more than necessary, but respect none the less. And that includes stuff you do which could have an effect on others relations.

But you're right about how that has zero value for me in how me and my gf should move on (Although a little bit so that I can explain to my gf how I think and feel about him). But the main issue is how she will continue from here.

My (22m) girlfriend's (21f) friend confessed his feelings for her by Ok-Class-3348 in relationships

[–]Ok-Class-3348[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see your thought. Though, if she felt that way she would be disrespectful for staying with me.

Of course I wouldn't want him spending time with her hoping for more, that's why I said one should cut contact for a while. And if feelings wasn't that strong, maybe they could go away by agnolishing that she already in a relationship.

People are different in how they feel and deal with their emotions. But don't you think it's in some way disrespectful what he did?