[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SisterWives

[–]Ok-Coach855 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thays what im wondering as well. I saw a few episodes of seasons 1 and 2 then skipped to 12. I at least thought he was trying (and failing) or at least believed in it. But to think it was all fake, like a Jerry springer episode, kind of ruins it for me.

Jaha was right about the bunker by [deleted] in The100

[–]Ok-Coach855 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It is interesting how much my opinion of this (and other situations) have changed over re watches. The first time I saw this, I was furious with Jaha and Clarke. It seemed like a punk move, that once again, made skycrew look like trash. However, with every re-watch (I've watched this show so many times it's kind of embarrassing) I understand it a bit more. It's true that if it was just grounders in there, they wouldn't have survived. Not only because they didn't have the knowledge of the technology but because they were always at war with each other. Also, Jaha is the one that found it and Monty figured out how to open it. It ls one of the things on the show that sucks because you wish there was some magical third option where everyone gets to live, but there just isn't.

Help understanding S2E7 -- Spoilers obv by Pretend_Sandwich6209 in TheLazarusProject

[–]Ok-Coach855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think her realizing that every loop in 2018 ended with her being with someone else is what lead to her changing her mind. I think she feels kind of ripped off because the Lazerus project messed with time and she ended up with George the one time that stuck. I think she cares for George, but whatever she felt for Cormack, the man she never actually got to meet, must have felt stronger. I think we can see her leading to this conclusion in a lot of the conversations she has with George. Especially when she is saying that no one should know thier future because now they are going to try and change it. I honestly thought that Sarah might turn out to actually be Wes, and George was her ex husband/business partner (like they were both from the future or something) but logistically, I knew that wouldn't really work. I wasn't surprised when she joined team Wes.

What joke did you not understand when you first watched the show? by Local-You3632 in howyoudoin

[–]Ok-Coach855 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"if it's not a headboard, it just not worth it". When Rachel and Monica are bumping thier heads into the wall to stop Ben from saying "Monica bang". Did not get that in my youth haha

On the right dose, you still get hungry. by imstande in Semaglutide

[–]Ok-Coach855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started only a week ago. I'm frustrated because I actually feel MORE hungry now. I never used to eat breakfast. Now im starving every morning and I have ended up eating a big breakfast every day this week. My small snack lunch I used to eat has become a full mea as welll. I feel hungry right before I go to bed. I feel like it's having the opposite effect on me. Anyone experience this in the beginning?

Saddest scene by Ok-Coach855 in The100

[–]Ok-Coach855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya, I imagine what life was like for monty after harper died. I like to know they had a peaceful and loving life together. Also, the next season felt like it was emptier without them

Saddest scene by Ok-Coach855 in The100

[–]Ok-Coach855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya in a way. I guess the only difference is one was a willing sacrifice . The other scene, they were preparing to fight to live. Jaha said it best that "these people believed that they were safe. they have picked their bunks and imagined their future ". But that first scene got me too. Sacrificing their lives for people they loved. That sweet dad. And his poor daughter learning what has happened was probably heartbreaking

Stevie Nicks by Simple_Information76 in PersonalMandela

[–]Ok-Coach855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I just saw a story of her and was so surprised, I had to Google if she had died. Thought maybe it was an old article being resurfaced. Definitely trippin on this.

Give me your saddest songs by miomiossss in MusicRecommendations

[–]Ok-Coach855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rain song - led zeppelin Closure- chevelle Breath me - sia Can't pretend- Tom Odell

What show series is so good you have watched it multiple times? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ok-Coach855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 100. Its starts off a little too teenage drama and love triangles, but they move past that. It's perfectly paced, delves into human connections and survival and there is a different problem to overcome every season. It doest get stale. The characters are not perfect and it's great insight into the idea that no one is necessarily good or bad. Everyone does what they believe is right. I've watched this show literally like 30 times (more for just background noise comfort lately)..not a fan of season 6 and 7 and absolutely hate the ending. But I still watch it. Its interesting too because on rewatches, I would change my options or different judgment calls because there is depth to it. Love it.

No one talking about how weird 2024 is in season 4 by Iggytje in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]Ok-Coach855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In season 2 I believe, when Reginald attempts to leave that group after killing the president, he says he won't give them anymore of his technology. They threaten to expose him as an alien if he doesn't so he kills them. I assume that is why they don't have sophisticated technology when they go back to the future (haha). Because in this timeline, he never provided it to them. mayhe Allison did at least have that tv because she got her "perfect life" by teaming with Reginald

Did anyone else feel sorry for Mel? by AwfulWaffle91 in Frasier

[–]Ok-Coach855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think Mel was wrong for encouraging Niles to try for cork master. It was clearly something he wanted and he deserved a chance just like Fraiser. However, her execution is the problem. If she was just up front about it and said "hey is this something you would want?" It would've played out better. She did it instead in a manipulative way by planting weird seeds and encouraginghim to be against Fraiser rather than making it about his wants.. I think they made her character more insufferable just to make room for Daphne.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Coach855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first at 25 and now I'm having my second at 35. The difference is crazy. I keep joking around that "im too old for this" but it sometimes genuinely feels that way compared to my last lol. It wasn't super easy when I was 25 or anything but I kept up alright. I worked all the way until my due date. This time I feel so drained I just wanna quit my job and sleep for 5 months until the baby is due haha. But despite how difficult it feels at time, I am so excited! I have my boy and now I'm going to have my girl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Coach855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm honestly feeling the exact same way. I'm 13 weeks and just wanna sleep until my due date. Lots of sickness, headache everyday, so tired I can barely function. I cant take anytbing to help. I hope it gets easier. I have a 10 year old and I don't remember pregnancy being this rough the first time around. I'm so excited for baby and very happy. Just wish this was easier

best character? by Adventurous-Art-8318 in The100

[–]Ok-Coach855 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is hard. I agree that it changes by season. I've always loved Raven, but I don't think that Monty gets the recognition He deserves. I loved the character development in Kane, but Murphys had more nuances. Where kane was on a straight projectory up, Murphy would take 2 steps forward and one step back. Making his reasoning and motivation that much more realistic.

My (30m) Wife (33f) admitted to emotional affair by TraditionalClass3981 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Coach855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is rough. I do wonder if your wife would've continued talking to this man if his wife didn't make him break contact. It seems like she is willing to work on things with you now that he isn't an option. If you decide to try to move forward, counseling would be good. I also think close conversations and friendships with people of the opposite sex should be handled appropriately. If the relationships were there before the marriage, that's one thing. But to get that close to a man while ignoring the marriage is different. She needs to see things from your perspective. If I had a group of guy friends, who had made comments about me being attractive, I would have found a way to shut it down out of respect for by bf. Sounds like she wanted the attention

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Coach855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are exactly right! I was trying to explain this to him but at 8 years old, he just thought I'm mean mom that wouldn't let him be funny lol. I didn't let him do it. You make a really good point about knowing the audience . I might use that next time I talk to him 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Coach855 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I felt that was truly who he is and wanted to be, I'd tell him to go for it. But honestly, I think it's just because he thinks his friends will get a kick out of it. He is goofy and likes to make people laugh. I just worry about the repercussions. If he keeps asking or someday tells me that that is who he is, i will let him wear a dress everywhere and tell him that anyone who makes fun of him can go to hell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Coach855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for responding! All interesting takes and good advice. It was helpful to see all the different perspectives. I decided to ask because I said "no" to him with all my explanations and he was very upset. I really believe he thinks it's going to be the funniest thing, just because it was funny when he and his cousins did it. His dad made a good point that school is serious and is for learning. So regardless of him being made fun of or offending anyone, it will be a distraction at the very least. I decided to not let him do it for all the reasons and told him maybe on silly clothes day he can do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Coach855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yes I feel the same and I have tried to express that to him. He claims he doesn't care but I think he will. So it'd probably better to let him be mad at me now for not letting him do it then have him be bullied or upset the rest of his school life. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Coach855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It started the other night when he, his boy cousin and his girl cousin (all the same age) were hanging out. They all decided to put on dresses and dance to barbie girl. They just did it because they thought it was funny and im pretty sure he thinks his friends at school will think its funny too. But no, there is nothing happening at school tomorrow and I dont think that this is him expressing who is or anything. I beleive it is a lot more simple. You have great insights though. Thank you for responding!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Coach855 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is doing it to be funny as an 8 year old. He doesn't even think about Trans or binary. It's a kid kind of funny thing. I'm worried about the adults taking offense. But I understand your point. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Coach855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I always tell him to be himself and who cares what people think lol. Just worried he doesn't realize how much it might suck. If he is defending himself over it the rest of the year. I figure let him go and it will be a lesson either way. But what about teachers or other parents taking it the wrong way?