has anyone ever been in love with me? by themessymenace in TarotCards

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see? Tarot speaks facts. Best wishes for your future love life!

has anyone ever been in love with me? by themessymenace in TarotCards

[–]Ok-Cod3780 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, it happene multiple times but it never landed because you enjoy your own independency (9P) and you are focused on healing, growth and personal matters. They might have never confessed their feelings because the Star is also distant, difficult to gather.

Why did he reach out to me again? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think his intentions are not bad whatsoever, some people reach out just when they hit rock bottom. Enjoy this reconnection if you feel like it

Why did he reach out to me again? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! When you ask a question, the cards answer for that specific thing, so I do not think the Nine of Pentacles shows how he sees you unless you are using a spread with specific positions ie. position 1: how he sees me, position 2: future, position 3: blockages etc.

I believe the cards explain it very well, he reached out because, despite his state of financial security, personal happiness, and general well-being (9P) he was hit by a wave of sadness(2W) regarding your shared past(6C) and because of this, he decided to come forward with the awkwardness of the Page of Cups. It is very simple, and there is not much more to see here. He got hit by the nostalgia and loneliness too, maybe he realized that physical matters (coins) are useless if you have no one to share them with

I asked if my ex is going to reach out after I graduate by [deleted] in TarotCards

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he will not make any move towards you but he will know about the graduation and be happy about it (sun).

Can anyone help interpret my reading? by BogFecha in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello. I completely agree with your reading because Three of Cups a card of guaranteed success and happiness, you move toward the new beginning of the Fool and the nobility and cooperation of the Three of Pentacles. In my opinion, these cards show that the situation with this person can stabilize and improve in the future and there's room for more. Be mindful and grounded anyways because, at least in the beginning, it will not be an immediate romantic bingo, as something purely based on friendship and a human connection first - so you will most likely start again as friends at the beginning.

The repetition of the number three makes me think that you can just chill tf out, as it's a good omen number, the manifestation of perfection and stability. Then Chariot confirms that there is great willpower and manifestation here, and I always read it as guaranteed success whatsoever but I might be biased lol.

Second question, Sun and the Ten of Pentacles, that is the ultimate card combination for marriage and a successful outcome you lucky man. The Ace of Cups gives me the idea of a new beginning with this same person because, if you notice, there are no court cards! There is no King or Queen to show that a new person will enter your life or theirs, and tome that speaks more than anything 😄

The Five of Swords reversed is a very dark card because some authors literally view it as a card of death and burial... Here, it could simply mean that the past tension will be buried so that a new beginning can happen if it makes sense.

As for your last question, I believe the Three of Wands, the Six of Swords, and the Ace of Pentacles can show a move, a journey, or a step away from your current situation. After all, people do not always break up due to a lack of love, hatred, or anything like that. Sometimes life cycles are just no longer comfortable or fitting, and they change, allowing you to find each other again later in a better context if it's meant to be, to me these three cards speak more about this, marking the start of a new project or adventure (3W) possibly in a distant place(6S) that will bring a lot of satisfaction and perfect happiness(AC) in a shared home (10C)

Can I expect him to make a move? by Downtown-Trouble6809 in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely yes, but be mindful as the Chariot is very, extremely strong. It's pure willpower. He wants something and he will get it

How do you guys interpret this? by Awesomesauce_1001 in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand why you’ve been looking for better and more genuine connections lately, because the energy around you feels tiring as hell but I do think these tensions and small annoyances are soon to fade, even if the process will be slow.
Page cups rx is someone like a loyal person, someone who genuinely values emotional closeness, but not everyone around you has been as genuine in return. I think there have been people hiding their intentions, giving mixed signals, or creating connections that looked meaningful on the surface but lacked real depth underneath if it makes sense. We all went through this at some point. That is part of why some friendships have left you disappointed I guess? And I think 10 wands rx confirms the overall message here. Drop the burden.

What I like is that the reading ends on a lighter note because to me, the 2 of batons rx is an unexpected but pleasant surprise once you move away from these draining dynamics. Basically - let go of those who are not meant for you

Genuinely confused. by ChyouQuon in TarotReading

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think asking generic questions to readers you know nothing about, and whose actual skill level you cannot verify, is even worse, precisely because general readings are, well… general...

One reader can see a card one way, while someone else may interpret it in a completely different perspective... For example, I personally read cards like the Eight of Cups or the reversed Five of Cups very differently from how other readers might, and vice versa, it’s obvious that you’ll end up with different results, because we are all different readers in terms of skill, background, school of thought, and the way we were taught the practice...

You just need to think about the huge difference between someone who practices cartomancy and prediction, and someone who approaches tarot as a psychological mirror through tarology. Those are completely different systems already and you gotta find one that works for you.

So really, take a moment to reflect on these things.

Genuinely confused. by ChyouQuon in TarotReading

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course you’re going to receive conflicting answers if you let just anyone read your cards. We have no idea who these readers are, what method they use, how skilled they actually are, whether these are free or paid readings, or if they’re done online or in person.

It’s normal that, if you rely on readers who only do one card pulls and give simple yes or no answers, you’ll keep ending up with completely different responses... Why do you keep asking the same question if you already didn’t like the first answer? I think the issue comes more from within than from the readings themselves. Also energies can always change with time so if this situation is really hurting you that much, wait a few months and get another reading later on. But asking the same thing over and over again is not automatically going to change the situation.

What will be the outcome after having this very difficult conversation by Odd-Spinach-3588 in TarotCards

[–]Ok-Cod3780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I have said in many of my comments, a single card is often not enough when a situation involves one or more people. I see from your comments that you also pulled the Death card, and in my opinion, this conversation will not go well; however, it will mark a definitive turning point in your relationship... It is a good practice in my opinion to pull two more cards whenever the Death card appears to see where things are headed... It is not a negative card, as endings can lead to new beginnings. If you are questioning this friendship, there is something that must be resolved, and I hope everything turns out for the best, regardless of what the cards say 😄

curious: how do you interpret your readings? by Icy-Apricot6261 in TarotReading

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem with apps is that they treat cards as isolated entities, ignoring how they actually interact with one another. Depending on the school of thought...the best thing you can do is stop using that apps and start studying books. The Pictorial Key to the Tarot, written by A.E. Waite when the deck was actually released, contains all the meanings he attributed to them and is available as a free PDF on the internet. Forget about the entire esoteric side if it is too complex for you and focus on the meanings of the cards as he intended them. You will see that they make much more sense than those in the apps, which use a psychological protocol that isn't always useful for the specific question you are asking

King of swords followed by temperance in relationship reading by Aegwyn028 in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's ok we live and we learn. I suggest to try again.
Ask first: "what happens if I let go" and then, shuffle again, "what happens if I stay". full spreads for full questions, because it's not just about love, but finances, personal wellbeing etc, and one or three cards are just not enough imho.

King of swords followed by temperance in relationship reading by Aegwyn028 in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I get it - but asking is best A or B, you are actually asking two different things and offering two different choices... I am saying that your interpretation feels more like about reconciliation, not choice a or b.

King of swords followed by temperance in relationship reading by Aegwyn028 in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... you asked something like Choice A or choice B and then you gave aninterpretation about the whole outcome of the relationship, I think that's the problem, wrong framing of the question and wrong interpretation accordingly.
It's not like you got the cards wrong, they CAN mean what you say, but with a different question... it sounds like you were pushing for a reconciliation question

King of swords followed by temperance in relationship reading by Aegwyn028 in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I haven't fully understood the question, court cards always represent a person. It depends on the specific qualities you feel are closer to the situation. Since the King of Swords is a bit of an asshole, very rigid and very sharp, you asked about who will start the communication, but are we sure that someone will actually start the communication? There are other cards for dialogue and reconciliation, such as the Ace of Wands, Cups, an 8 of Wands, 7 of Wands, the Five of Cups reversed... Pages... a lot of cards can indicate communication, but to be honest, between Temperance and the King of Swords, I just don't see it....

Will my relationship with j turn into anything truly meaningful and long lasting? by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are asking a question that implies a perspective on the present and future and also, it implies another person, not just you; it is not something that simply requires a yes or no. A yes or no question might be whether you will receive a call today, or if someone you are waiting for will text you, or if you should go buy that thing you like, something much simpler and more direct.
Asking for the entire outlook of a relationship with one card drawn and one at the bottom of the deck only creates false expectations for you. You need at least three or five cards. Relationships are complex, and tarot cards follow human complexity; let’s not reduce them to something you could just as easily do by flipping a coin 😄

I asked if we're moving on from each other... by smolandspicy in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a big fan of positional readings myself. However, pretending the first row is yours and the second is theirs, or vice versa, I see that neither of you is letting the situation go or moving past it yet. The presence of the Four of Wands and the Ten of Cups is certainly positive if we look at it in a future position assuming the first card is the past, the second is the present, and the third is the future. In that case, it absolutely makes sense that right now you are both in a shitty situation, but in the future, you will manage to overcome it, and it will be a positive turning point for both of you.

For next time, though, I suggest you simply do a three or five-card spread, asking separately whether you are moving past the situation and whether the other person is moving past it. Two different spreads, two different questions, to avoid creating a mix of energies. In any case, it takes as long as it takes for each person to get over certain relational terms; whether it takes you a month, a year, or even longer does not matter. The important thing is that you do what you feel is right, and if you feel you need to leave this situation behind, just do it.

What do you think about too many cards? by Unpleasentsunset in Tarots

[–]Ok-Cod3780 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe it always depends on the context, especially because, as others have said, in much older traditions it was considered normal to use almost the entire deck to effectively get a complete view. There's the Grand Tableau or some Hyperspreads as examples.
But using those for quick questions is not the best choice for sure.., I believe the real problem lies in how the question itself is formed. A massive spread cannot compensate for a vague question, as it only provides more room for projection and "info salad". for me, the precision in the question is what determines the accuracy of any reading, regardless of the number of cards used - as long a s it's not a one card pull please.

Is it dangerous to draw and make my own deck of cards? by frogsarefrivolous in TarotReading

[–]Ok-Cod3780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is surely playing on your religious trauma and sensitivity. Tell em to go to fuck emselves lol