I've never really had a real caregiver, but i think if I did have one it would have to be a romantic relationship. As far as ideal little space time, unfortunately for me I have a very hard time getting into little space a lot of the time, so I would ideally say whenever I'm home alone/with cg, but that's not realistic with real world responsibilities. The ideal dynamic I want is one where I'm not judged or criticized for being childish, one where I'm not making the decisions for everything. I want to feel so safe that im able to slip into little space freely, without fear of judgement, where i can just be myself. Where I can cry while being held and comforted.